Anonymous
Post 12/25/2025 08:48     Subject: Disappointed with Barnard

Yale
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2025 08:38     Subject: Disappointed with Barnard

Anonymous wrote:My child has had the same freshman year experience at an Ivy (not Columbia so I can't speak to it's rigor). Classes are ridiculously easy even as a STEM major and many peers are not doing well in them (grades on tests as low as in the teens). All together a big step down in rigor and peer group from child's private high school. They got a job for 15-20 hours a week to fill the time.

I have no doubt that there are Ivies and other colleges that are still rigorous but many are not. I am not posting this to be a jerk or a snob at all but because it's been really eye opening.


Please name the Ivy League school that your child is attending. Thanks !
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2025 07:55     Subject: Disappointed with Barnard

My child has had the same freshman year experience at an Ivy (not Columbia so I can't speak to it's rigor). Classes are ridiculously easy even as a STEM major and many peers are not doing well in them (grades on tests as low as in the teens). All together a big step down in rigor and peer group from child's private high school. They got a job for 15-20 hours a week to fill the time.

I have no doubt that there are Ivies and other colleges that are still rigorous but many are not. I am not posting this to be a jerk or a snob at all but because it's been really eye opening.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2025 07:04     Subject: Disappointed with Barnard

There are a lot of ways to increase challenge. My kid does this by taking more classes, getting a job or two, taking higher level classes, and adding a second or third major.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2025 06:57     Subject: Disappointed with Barnard

It’s only been one semester, which means four, maybe five classes. Every semester has a shopping period so she can find the vigorous classes next semester. What classes did she take that she found easy?
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2025 06:53     Subject: Disappointed with Barnard

What a dumb comment. It has been one semester. I would rather that experience than the opposite extreme. You think you are humblebragging about how brilliant she is but you are just making her sound totally un-self aware. Since classes are apparently so easy perhaps she should spend more time socializing and working on her EQ.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2025 05:03     Subject: Disappointed with Barnard

She has only completed one semester. Too early to tell. Will she be taking high level science or math classes?
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2025 03:07     Subject: Disappointed with Barnard

One more reason why Columbia > Barnard
Anonymous
Post 12/24/2025 18:43     Subject: Disappointed with Barnard

Anonymous wrote:My DD is first year at Barnard and, though she loves being in the city, she is finding the classes pretty easy (and she came from a public school with a lot of grade inflation). She expected more rigor/to be challenged more and maybe that's still to come but she's underwhelmed. Anyone else?


Is your DD thinking about transferring? I know how it feels not to be challenged. Swarthmore comes to mind. Reed, Carleton as well but I think Swarthmore may be the best fit for your DD. Also, can she just transfer to Columbia college?
Anonymous
Post 12/24/2025 18:39     Subject: Disappointed with Barnard

Anonymous wrote:My DD is first year at Barnard and, though she loves being in the city, she is finding the classes pretty easy (and she came from a public school with a lot of grade inflation). She expected more rigor/to be challenged more and maybe that's still to come but she's underwhelmed. Anyone else?


Isn't that a great result? Can't she cross-enroll in classes at Columbia College? Perhaps classes being easy will enable her to take a part-time job or internship in the City?
Anonymous
Post 12/24/2025 18:35     Subject: Disappointed with Barnard

Oh well.
Anonymous
Post 12/24/2025 18:34     Subject: Disappointed with Barnard

Can you elaborate more on what's too easy or easier in her experience/opinion? We're looking at colleges.
Anonymous
Post 12/24/2025 18:34     Subject: Disappointed with Barnard

My niece feels the same way.
Anonymous
Post 12/24/2025 18:26     Subject: Disappointed with Barnard

Anonymous wrote:My DD is first year at Barnard and, though she loves being in the city, she is finding the classes pretty easy (and she came from a public school with a lot of grade inflation). She expected more rigor/to be challenged more and maybe that's still to come but she's underwhelmed. Anyone else?


Rule of thumb: The harder it is to get into the easier the grading is.
Anonymous
Post 12/24/2025 17:55     Subject: Disappointed with Barnard

My DD is first year at Barnard and, though she loves being in the city, she is finding the classes pretty easy (and she came from a public school with a lot of grade inflation). She expected more rigor/to be challenged more and maybe that's still to come but she's underwhelmed. Anyone else?