Anonymous wrote:Why do they have to be stars? Why can't they just do those things because they enjoy it. They don't have to the the BEST. You are the problem.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I couldn't access the article. Is there a gift link option?
My kid is not specialized. Also, she is a girl. I'm in my 40s, so I know that in reality, just as women can't have it all, girls can't do everything boys can do. In general. Particularly if they are women of color.
That is to say, even if she were specialized, the sky would not be the limit. Do I want her to have to go through the hardship (and possibly martyrdom) of breaking barriers? Not necessarily.
I hope your daughter succeeds despite having such a sad sack for a mother
Anonymous wrote:I couldn't access the article. Is there a gift link option?
My kid is not specialized. Also, she is a girl. I'm in my 40s, so I know that in reality, just as women can't have it all, girls can't do everything boys can do. In general. Particularly if they are women of color.
That is to say, even if she were specialized, the sky would not be the limit. Do I want her to have to go through the hardship (and possibly martyrdom) of breaking barriers? Not necessarily.
Anonymous wrote:My kids have semi-specialized so I don't really have a dog in this fight, but I did find this study interesting. I wonder if this will change over time since the current system seems to reward specializing early a lot more than it used to.
https://www.wsj.com/science/elite-high-performance-adults-children-sports-study-ae8d6bed?mod=hp_featst_pos5
Kids who are stars in sports and music don’t usually grow up to be stars as adults, a new study found.
An examination of thousands of adults across fields including sports, music, academia and chess found that world-class performers—Olympic champions, renowned composers, Nobel laureates—often don’t excel early.
There was just a 10% overlap between high-performing kids and elite-level adults, researchers reported in a paper Thursday in the journal Science. Most young top performers didn’t remain top performers during peak-performance age, and most adult standouts weren’t standouts as kids.
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There are a few possible explanations, he added. Pursuing a range of interests increases your chance of finding one that you enjoy and are good at. And being exposed to multiple activities as a child can make you a more adaptable learner when you’re older.
Overspecializing at a young age also increases the risks of burnout and overuse injuries, and is less sustainable in the long run, according to the researchers.
Anonymous wrote:I have remained involved in my childhood sport, figure skating, as a judge. I've seen several generations of skaters, now, including from the homeschool community, go on to become successful adults in various fields unrelated to skating. I think that the qualities required to train hard enough to compete at an elite level translates to other areas of life. You just have to find new passions after sport.