Anonymous wrote:Op here. I’m looking at my competition on Hinge:

Busty women with thirst traps
Teeny tiny bikini pictures
Size 00

Here I am a normal woman!

You need to aim for normal men. Dad bod type.

Anonymous wrote:Op here. I’m looking at my competition on Hinge:

Busty women with thirst traps
Teeny tiny bikini pictures
Size 00

Here I am a normal woman!

Normal? Slightly overweight normal?

My extremely average looking BF has gone out with a number of very attractive guys she met on OLD. I'm not sure what is going on with you because from her point of view it's really easy to find tons of matches.

Op here. I’m looking at my competition on Hinge:

Busty women with thirst traps
Teeny tiny bikini pictures
Size 00

Here I am a normal woman!

I don't know why you would put OLD? At 30, I was an absolute stunner, in the words of others. What is with this self-deprecating trend on dcum lately?

What do you mean by attractive men? Attractive in what sense? What are we talking about here? Tall white men with high income sounding jobs?

Anonymous wrote:I’m a late thirties woman. I didn’t think I was so undesirable until I joined OLD and I realize no guy I find attractive seems to think I’m attractive too! And the guys I do not find attractive swipe right on me and want to take me out.

I didn’t realize how ugly I was!

You just seem picky. But it's also how OLD leans towards looks only based matching. The men who hit on me in RL are usually WAAY more attractive than those on OLD.
OLD tends to be comprised of "hot" women and "wealthy" men. Real life is different - more similarly "average" matches for average people

This is not true. I am a woman!

Anonymous wrote:late forties will be x100 times worse and after that you are invisible to anyone. enjoy what you have.

This thread is created by a male sad basement dweller who can't get anyone match with him to bush "older" women.
People date largely in their own age group. If a late 40s woman dates mid 40s-mid 50s men and she's good looking there will be plenty of interest
Men judge by themselves: they try to match with 20-30 yo women while being 50s themselves and get zero response. So they think all 50s women also get no response

late forties will be x100 times worse and after that you are invisible to anyone. enjoy what you have.

You aren't old. It must be something else.

Like many women you have inflated sense of self worth. At least you realize it now. Good for you. Some women don’t even realize that. Learn to be in your own lane.

This seems like a red pill dude posing as a woman.

You are picky. That's different.

I’m a late thirties woman. I didn’t think I was so undesirable until I joined OLD and I realize no guy I find attractive seems to think I’m attractive too! And the guys I do not find attractive swipe right on me and want to take me out.

I didn’t realize how ugly I was!