Anonymous
Post 12/14/2025 11:49     Subject: Teen wants a grown up cold shoulder sweater
Anonymous wrote:Shop some other brands - there are some that run quite a bit smaller


This. Find an alternative so she's willing to return the one that looks bad.
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2025 11:41     Subject: Teen wants a grown up cold shoulder sweater
Shop some other brands - there are some that run quite a bit smaller
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2025 08:37     Subject: Teen wants a grown up cold shoulder sweater
My daughter has some shirts that go way off her shoulders and yes, you can see everything if she moves. You can ok all of the girls. Mine wears a cami or tank underneath. I’ve seen others wear sports bras. Don’t return it if she loves it. Come up with a solution.
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2025 00:41     Subject: Teen wants a grown up cold shoulder sweater
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I got the smallest size in the adult size since she seemed obsessed with this. It is just hanging on her and looks awful with the armhole cut so low. She insists it is fine because she likes the style. I'm also pretty sure if she bends she will be showing everything. I said No we need to return this and she has been sulking. Now what?


Return it. End of story.


Yeah, strict parents raise sneaky kids. I'm glad my kids trust me and tell me everything. My daughters friend has strict parents who won't let her wear anything that doesn't cover her stomach or shoulders and now here she is sneaking around her parents hanging out with boys and secretly wearing very very cropped shirts that she changes into at school.


Lol. Ok, sure. They tell you everything.
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2025 00:22     Subject: Teen wants a grown up cold shoulder sweater
Anonymous wrote:I hate the huge arm holes in teen clothes and my own clothes. Camisoles or undergarments will prevent anything showing


ok well that's your opinion, you don't have to push that onto your daughter. Let her be her own person with her own taste.
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2025 00:21     Subject: Teen wants a grown up cold shoulder sweater
Anonymous wrote:Leave her be.


clocked queen
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2025 00:20     Subject: Teen wants a grown up cold shoulder sweater
Leave her be.
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2025 00:05     Subject: Teen wants a grown up cold shoulder sweater
I hate the huge arm holes in teen clothes and my own clothes. Camisoles or undergarments will prevent anything showing
Anonymous
Post 12/14/2025 00:00     Subject: Teen wants a grown up cold shoulder sweater
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Have her wear a tank or cami under it


This is fair.


+1 I think its a good compromise
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2025 23:59     Subject: Teen wants a grown up cold shoulder sweater
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I got the smallest size in the adult size since she seemed obsessed with this. It is just hanging on her and looks awful with the armhole cut so low. She insists it is fine because she likes the style. I'm also pretty sure if she bends she will be showing everything. I said No we need to return this and she has been sulking. Now what?


Return it. End of story.


Yeah, strict parents raise sneaky kids. I'm glad my kids trust me and tell me everything. My daughters friend has strict parents who won't let her wear anything that doesn't cover her stomach or shoulders and now here she is sneaking around her parents hanging out with boys and secretly wearing very very cropped shirts that she changes into at school.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2025 23:57     Subject: Teen wants a grown up cold shoulder sweater
Anonymous wrote:Have her wear a tank or cami under it


This is fair.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2025 23:55     Subject: Teen wants a grown up cold shoulder sweater
Have her wear a tank or cami under it
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2025 23:51     Subject: Teen wants a grown up cold shoulder sweater
Anonymous wrote:I got the smallest size in the adult size since she seemed obsessed with this. It is just hanging on her and looks awful with the armhole cut so low. She insists it is fine because she likes the style. I'm also pretty sure if she bends she will be showing everything. I said No we need to return this and she has been sulking. Now what?


Return it. End of story.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2025 23:47     Subject: Teen wants a grown up cold shoulder sweater
Anonymous wrote:I got the smallest size in the adult size since she seemed obsessed with this. It is just hanging on her and looks awful with the armhole cut so low. She insists it is fine because she likes the style. I'm also pretty sure if she bends she will be showing everything. I said No we need to return this and she has been sulking. Now what?

I'm sorry but why do you care? If your daughter likes it that's the important thing. Have you tested it to see if it will actually show anything if she bends down? If not it should be fine. How old is she, OP?
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2025 23:39     Subject: Teen wants a grown up cold shoulder sweater
I got the smallest size in the adult size since she seemed obsessed with this. It is just hanging on her and looks awful with the armhole cut so low. She insists it is fine because she likes the style. I'm also pretty sure if she bends she will be showing everything. I said No we need to return this and she has been sulking. Now what?