Who are these people saying give him a notice? It has been there for 6 months. He doesn’t need a reminder… he doesn’t need anything because he left. Toss it all.

Anonymous wrote:Yes. And who are these men moving in with women anyways?

For the same reason that lots of women move into the man’s place. It’s cheaper than maintaining two residences.

Op I agree you should send him a notice that it will be on the front step porch and available for pick up until x date at which time it will be thrown away.

Anonymous wrote:Send one text saying it will be left outside your apartment/house door on this date. If not picked up it will go into the trash.

This is the way.

It’s bad karma to just trash it without some sort of final warning. I’d give him a text and put him on a 7-10 day shot clock to get it out.

I would donate if it’s something valuable

Anonymous wrote:Don’t just throw it away, burn it.

Then bury the ashes in a cemetery at midnight under a full moon.

Don’t just throw it away, burn it.

Send one text saying it will be left outside your apartment/house door on this date. If not picked up it will go into the trash.

Anonymous wrote:One more reminder: you are leaving it outside where he can pick it up and if he doesn’t, it goes in the trash.

This is a good intention, but it will probably backfire. He’ll blame you for putting it outside when he didn’t have a chance to pick it up and now it’s your fault.

Just put it in the dumpster. The only thing I would say is if it’s art artwork he made maybe give them the option to pick it up unless it sucks in which case - dumpster

What art? Personalized art? Don't be petty. Ship it to him or at the very least write to him with a drop dead date to make arrangements.

One more reminder: you are leaving it outside where he can pick it up and if he doesn’t, it goes in the trash.

Yes.

Yes. And who are these men moving in with women anyways?

Yes.

My BF and I split over 6 months ago, he moved out. For context, he's a massive procrastinator and overall super lazy.

He left some stuff at my place - art, clothes, books, etc. Can I go ahead and throw it all out? I feel like 6 months is plenty of time to pick it up without needing to be reminded.