Serious Question: How does this make her one with a narcissistic personality ?

She isn't your friend, you don't even like her and she doesn't appear to like you.

What leverage does she have over the people in this social group that she can dictate stuff like this and people go along with it? Whatever it is, it's BS. You're an adult, do what you want.

I have a very controlling, narcissistic friend.

Thinks she is the smartest in the room-very controlling over others.

For example, at some point unbeknownst to me, she declared Wednesday is the night the ladies can go out and on Thursdays the husbands go out. Another friend has also noticed this.

I made a comment a few weeks ago “interesting how it is always the same days” WHOA did she get angry.

Trying to distance myself from her.

Just venting here.