Anonymous
Post 12/09/2025 10:47     Subject: How long

Anonymous wrote:I waited three hours and we're going on 25 years next summer!

I love this!
Anonymous
Post 12/09/2025 10:39     Subject: How long

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I waited three hours and we're going on 25 years next summer!


And we waited 2 years and are going on 17 years!

It's almost as if people and relationships differ and you have to figure out what works for you and your partner.


DP, you're awfully defensive towards PP when she passed zero judgment on anything you did or didn't do. She simply stated how long it took her. Why the defensiveness?
Anonymous
Post 12/09/2025 10:36     Subject: How long

Anonymous wrote:I waited three hours and we're going on 25 years next summer!


And we waited 2 years and are going on 17 years!

It's almost as if people and relationships differ and you have to figure out what works for you and your partner.
Anonymous
Post 12/09/2025 10:21     Subject: How long

Anonymous wrote:Divorced woman in my 40s and am dating.

There is someone I really like and we’ve had a few dates.

How long do people wait before having sex w a new partner?

I knew the rules when I was in my 20s but haven’t dated in a while



The first rule about dating in your 40s is don't talk about dating in your 40s...

The second rule about dating in your 40s is refer to rule number one.

Third: profit.
Anonymous
Post 12/09/2025 10:21     Subject: How long

I waited three hours and we're going on 25 years next summer!
Anonymous
Post 12/09/2025 10:19     Subject: How long

There are no rules. There were none in your 20s either.
Anonymous
Post 12/09/2025 10:06     Subject: Re:How long

I'm a little surprised that anyone who has reached the ripe age of 40 would still give a damn about any made up or perceived rules.
Anonymous
Post 12/09/2025 10:06     Subject: How long

Anonymous wrote:Wait until you marry him before having sex


Oh hey, crazy religious lady. Nothing better to do again today?

Anonymous
Post 12/09/2025 10:03     Subject: How long

Wait until you marry him before having sex
Anonymous
Post 12/09/2025 09:52     Subject: How long

Oh good

“The rules”
Anonymous
Post 12/09/2025 09:37     Subject: How long

There were no rules in your 20's
Anonymous
Post 12/09/2025 07:46     Subject: How long

I was in my 30’s and it was about 2 months in. I was ready a month in but felt like I should wait, not sure why. We’re married now.
Anonymous
Post 12/09/2025 07:44     Subject: How long

I waited 3 months but we were on the same page, both dating for the first time since divorces
Anonymous
Post 12/09/2025 06:16     Subject: How long

There are no rules. 🤦‍♂️
Anonymous
Post 12/09/2025 05:46     Subject: How long

Divorced woman in my 40s and am dating.

There is someone I really like and we’ve had a few dates.

How long do people wait before having sex w a new partner?

I knew the rules when I was in my 20s but haven’t dated in a while