Anonymous
Post 12/04/2025 17:45     Subject: Is DH being a jerk? I’m locked out of our house

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Can’t you go to his department and just get them? Why does he need to run them to you?

He is in a locked unit and won’t come out of the door/hand them to someone else


What is a locked unit? (sorry for my ignorance)


either crazy people or babies
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2025 17:44     Subject: Is DH being a jerk? I’m locked out of our house

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Can’t you go to his department and just get them? Why does he need to run them to you?

He is in a locked unit and won’t come out of the door/hand them to someone else


What is a locked unit? (sorry for my ignorance)
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2025 17:43     Subject: Is DH being a jerk? I’m locked out of our house

Anonymous wrote:Can’t you go to his department and just get them? Why does he need to run them to you?

He is in a locked unit and won’t come out of the door/hand them to someone else
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2025 17:43     Subject: Re:Is DH being a jerk? I’m locked out of our house

He’s being a jerk.
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2025 17:43     Subject: Re:Is DH being a jerk? I’m locked out of our house

Too late to help you today, but you need a hide-a-key or a combination style lock or at least a spare key left with a neighbor for the future.

Locksmiths are expensive, but can get you in if you want in badly enough to pay for it.
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2025 17:43     Subject: Is DH being a jerk? I’m locked out of our house

NP. My mom was an ER nurse. It depends on how busy he is. If he literally cannot walk to the front desk and drop off the keys because he’s taking care of patients, I’d be annoyed at the situation, but forgive him. If he “can’t” because he’s uncomfortable leaving the keys with someone, I’d be very annoyed.
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2025 17:43     Subject: Is DH being a jerk? I’m locked out of our house

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What is his job there? Is he able to run out at any time or not? Not all hospital positions would allow you to take a random break.

Nurse but he also won’t give them to security so I can get them.

Why not? Is this some kind of power struggle you two typically engage in?

He does t want to be known as problematic at work. I don’t get it. This is the first time this has happened.
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2025 17:42     Subject: Is DH being a jerk? I’m locked out of our house

Can’t you go to his department and just get them? Why does he need to run them to you?
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2025 17:42     Subject: Is DH being a jerk? I’m locked out of our house

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Unless he's in surgery, he's a jerk.


You think a nurse can just leave a shift?


To walk to reception where he can hand keys to his spouse? Yes, I do think a nurse can do that.
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2025 17:42     Subject: Is DH being a jerk? I’m locked out of our house

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What is his job there? Is he able to run out at any time or not? Not all hospital positions would allow you to take a random break.

Nurse but he also won’t give them to security so I can get them.

Why not? Is this some kind of power struggle you two typically engage in?
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2025 17:42     Subject: Is DH being a jerk? I’m locked out of our house

Why cant you talk up to his floor?
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2025 17:40     Subject: Is DH being a jerk? I’m locked out of our house

Anonymous wrote:Unless he's in surgery, he's a jerk.


+1

He can recover from this by taking the initiative to install a smartlock, pronto.
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2025 17:40     Subject: Is DH being a jerk? I’m locked out of our house

Anonymous wrote:What is his job there? Is he able to run out at any time or not? Not all hospital positions would allow you to take a random break.

Nurse but he also won’t give them to security so I can get them.
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2025 17:38     Subject: Is DH being a jerk? I’m locked out of our house

Unless he's in surgery, he's a jerk.
Anonymous
Post 12/04/2025 17:37     Subject: Is DH being a jerk? I’m locked out of our house

DHs car is in the shop so I took him to work(hospital). He ended up having both our house keys on him. He texts me that he has it and now I’m locked out of our house. DH tells me to wait for his break (7:30 pm) and if not just hang out in the car (he gets out of work at 1am). He refuses to answer his phone or give the keys to someone else so I can get them.