Anonymous
12/01/2025 23:44
Subject: "Thank You to All Who Reached Out...."
Anonymous wrote:Manager has no business leading a team if he/she can't understand that they have now, inadvertently, created an environment where reports are to compete for his/her praise on efforts that never should occur.
No one is a lesser employee because they prioritize family time, on a holiday no less, over fluffing a manager's ego.
Also, it's easy to spot the brown nosers. Dont be one.
This👆. No employee should be put in the position to kiss ass , whatever “ day” it is. Just uncomfortable and unnecessary
Anonymous
11/30/2025 19:41
Subject: "Thank You to All Who Reached Out...."
Why r us giving this a second thought??? It might be lazy. It might be manipulative. So what, move on OP!
Anonymous
11/30/2025 19:29
Subject: "Thank You to All Who Reached Out...."
Are we supposed to send happy thanksgiving messages to our staff/teams/colleagues? Why?
Anonymous
11/30/2025 19:24
Subject: "Thank You to All Who Reached Out...."
Manager has no business leading a team if he/she can't understand that they have now, inadvertently, created an environment where reports are to compete for his/her praise on efforts that never should occur.
No one is a lesser employee because they prioritize family time, on a holiday no less, over fluffing a manager's ego.
Also, it's easy to spot the brown nosers. Dont be one.
No one is a lesser employee because they prioritize family time, on a holiday no less, over fluffing a manager's ego.
Also, it's easy to spot the brown nosers. Dont be one.
Anonymous
11/30/2025 18:58
Subject: "Thank You to All Who Reached Out...."
Anonymous wrote:It’s just a lazy message. Don’t read too much into it.
Agree. Sender is probably completely clueless on how this could sound.
Anonymous
11/30/2025 18:58
Subject: "Thank You to All Who Reached Out...."
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think it's just awkward. Don't read into it.
I'm mid-career and recently for the first time ever, I got a boss who wishes the women in the office "Happy Mother's Day" in a group Teams message. I think it's kinda weird. I do not wish him "Happy Father's Day".
I do with mine, but only if I'm already meeting him or emailing with him the Friday before, like "good weekend, oh, and happy father's day!" Wouldn't go out of my way otherwise.
PP. I think it's weird because his role as parent has nothing to do with your work. Other holidays are shared work holidays so saying "Have a nice T-day" is the same as "Have a nice day off".
Anonymous
11/30/2025 18:58
Subject: "Thank You to All Who Reached Out...."
Anonymous wrote:It's one of three things IMO:
1) They're lazy and want to reply, but not to many people individually.
2) They're awkward and wanted to say thanks while appending some sort of message to the whole team.
3) They're petty.
Which is most likely only the OP can say based on their knowledge of the person.
I agree. Since I have autistic relatives, I immediately jumped to 2). It would be so typical of my relatives.
Anonymous
11/30/2025 18:56
Subject: "Thank You to All Who Reached Out...."
Anonymous wrote:I think it's just awkward. Don't read into it.
I'm mid-career and recently for the first time ever, I got a boss who wishes the women in the office "Happy Mother's Day" in a group Teams message. I think it's kinda weird. I do not wish him "Happy Father's Day".
I do with mine, but only if I'm already meeting him or emailing with him the Friday before, like "good weekend, oh, and happy father's day!" Wouldn't go out of my way otherwise.
Anonymous
11/30/2025 18:55
Subject: "Thank You to All Who Reached Out...."
It’s just a lazy message. Don’t read too much into it.
Anonymous
11/30/2025 18:52
Subject: "Thank You to All Who Reached Out...."
It's one of three things IMO:
1) They're lazy and want to reply, but not to many people individually.
2) They're awkward and wanted to say thanks while appending some sort of message to the whole team.
3) They're petty.
Which is most likely only the OP can say based on their knowledge of the person.
1) They're lazy and want to reply, but not to many people individually.
2) They're awkward and wanted to say thanks while appending some sort of message to the whole team.
3) They're petty.
Which is most likely only the OP can say based on their knowledge of the person.
Anonymous
11/30/2025 18:51
Subject: "Thank You to All Who Reached Out...."
Anonymous wrote:Manager must be a late 20s woman...
OP says him.
Anonymous
11/30/2025 18:44
Subject: "Thank You to All Who Reached Out...."
Manager must be a late 20s woman...
Anonymous
11/30/2025 15:22
Subject: "Thank You to All Who Reached Out...."
I think it's just awkward. Don't read into it.
I'm mid-career and recently for the first time ever, I got a boss who wishes the women in the office "Happy Mother's Day" in a group Teams message. I think it's kinda weird. I do not wish him "Happy Father's Day".
I'm mid-career and recently for the first time ever, I got a boss who wishes the women in the office "Happy Mother's Day" in a group Teams message. I think it's kinda weird. I do not wish him "Happy Father's Day".
Anonymous
11/30/2025 15:19
Subject: "Thank You to All Who Reached Out...."
Anonymous wrote:This was the opening line to a long and odd email, just sent today to my entire team (32 people), from my manager to thank the unknown number of people that emailed him a "Happy Thanksgiving!"
I was not one of those people and it sure feels like he's being pissy about those that didn't.
Insinuating that your underlings are failing by not offering holiday greetings while..... out on holiday.....is a real, real sh*tty look in case you were wondering.
Update your resume.
Anonymous
11/30/2025 15:18
Subject: "Thank You to All Who Reached Out...."
This was the opening line to a long and odd email, just sent today to my entire team (32 people), from my manager to thank the unknown number of people that emailed him a "Happy Thanksgiving!"
I was not one of those people and it sure feels like he's being pissy about those that didn't.
Insinuating that your underlings are failing by not offering holiday greetings while..... out on holiday.....is a real, real sh*tty look in case you were wondering.
I was not one of those people and it sure feels like he's being pissy about those that didn't.
Insinuating that your underlings are failing by not offering holiday greetings while..... out on holiday.....is a real, real sh*tty look in case you were wondering.