Anonymous
Post 11/22/2025 10:10     Subject: Planning to meet a guy for drinks who doesn’t want to come to Virginia

he sounds gay
Anonymous
Post 11/22/2025 10:08     Subject: Planning to meet a guy for drinks who doesn’t want to come to Virginia

Anonymous wrote:He’s just looking for a booty call.


Agreed. He wants to be able to invite you back to his place easily.
Anonymous
Post 11/22/2025 10:08     Subject: Planning to meet a guy for drinks who doesn’t want to come to Virginia

Too much work. Ghost
Anonymous
Post 11/22/2025 10:08     Subject: Planning to meet a guy for drinks who doesn’t want to come to Virginia

Foggy Bottom is one stop past Arlington.
Anonymous
Post 11/22/2025 10:06     Subject: Re:Planning to meet a guy for drinks who doesn’t want to come to Virginia

Anonymous wrote:Op here. This is what I texted back.

“So Foggy Bottom is still too far for from Fairfax for me. Arlington would work better as it’s the mid point for both of us distance wise. If Arlington works for you I’m happy to meet, if not we can always connect another time.”


it's literally a 3< minutes 1 stop ride on metro. why wouldn't either of you compromise?
Anonymous
Post 11/22/2025 10:05     Subject: Planning to meet a guy for drinks who doesn’t want to come to Virginia

It seems that you are not compatible. You don't want to leave Virginia. He doesn't want to come to Virginia. How y'all plan on dating and building a relationship?
Instead of getting into a useless tit for tat and you trying to bred flag him as a bad guy. Just accept it as a compatibility thing it is. And say it's not going to work out for you and move on
Anonymous
Post 11/22/2025 10:04     Subject: Planning to meet a guy for drinks who doesn’t want to come to Virginia

Doesn't sound very promising if he won't make the effort for the first date.
Anonymous
Post 11/22/2025 10:03     Subject: Planning to meet a guy for drinks who doesn’t want to come to Virginia

He’s just looking for a booty call.
Anonymous
Post 11/22/2025 10:03     Subject: Planning to meet a guy for drinks who doesn’t want to come to Virginia

BYE dude. He's already a pain in the butt.
Anonymous
Post 11/22/2025 10:03     Subject: Re:Planning to meet a guy for drinks who doesn’t want to come to Virginia

Op here. This is what I texted back.

“So Foggy Bottom is still too far for from Fairfax for me. Arlington would work better as it’s the mid point for both of us distance wise. If Arlington works for you I’m happy to meet, if not we can always connect another time.”
Anonymous
Post 11/22/2025 09:59     Subject: Planning to meet a guy for drinks who doesn’t want to come to Virginia

Halloween is over, but never too late to ghost.
Anonymous
Post 11/22/2025 09:58     Subject: Planning to meet a guy for drinks who doesn’t want to come to Virginia

Your lives are too busy for the commute distance. Next. Or save it for when you have an important reason to be near each other, and make the date an add on
Anonymous
Post 11/22/2025 09:56     Subject: Planning to meet a guy for drinks who doesn’t want to come to Virginia

Arlington or Tyson’s or don’t go. I live in Fairfax Station. I work in DC.

You guys are not that far apart and he can meet you halfway.
Anonymous
Post 11/22/2025 09:54     Subject: Planning to meet a guy for drinks who doesn’t want to come to Virginia

Don’t go out with him if he won’t meet you in at least the middle.
Anonymous
Post 11/22/2025 09:52     Subject: Planning to meet a guy for drinks who doesn’t want to come to Virginia

He lives in DuPont, I live in Fairfax. He first suggested meeting in Logan Circle. I said that was too far and suggested Arlington. He comes back and recommends meeting at Foggy Bottom.

I don’t love that he won’t make the trek over to Arlington and expects me to go to DC. What would you do?