Anonymous
11/13/2025 15:09
Subject: Unorthodox ways to deal with people who are passive aggressive to you in group settings, but no one else notices?
Oh no, their keys are missing. Oh no, their work ID is missing. Oh no, you dropped the dish they brought and now their side dish is ruined.
Anonymous
11/13/2025 14:05
Subject: Unorthodox ways to deal with people who are passive aggressive to you in group settings, but no one else notices?
If no one else notices then the problem is you.
Anonymous
11/13/2025 14:04
Subject: Unorthodox ways to deal with people who are passive aggressive to you in group settings, but no one else notices?
"WOW, Diane. That's a weird observation. No, these are my natural breasts. What's wrong with you?"
Anonymous
11/13/2025 10:08
Subject: Unorthodox ways to deal with people who are passive aggressive to you in group settings, but no one else notices?
Stomping means you’ve done something objectively wrong that they can call out. You either fight fire with passive-aggressive fire or you pretend not to understand any of their jibes. That will drive them crazy because their goal is to make you feel bad.
Anonymous
11/13/2025 09:55
Subject: Unorthodox ways to deal with people who are passive aggressive to you in group settings, but no one else notices?
No, stomping on people is not the way to manage this.
Anonymous
11/13/2025 09:53
Subject: Unorthodox ways to deal with people who are passive aggressive to you in group settings, but no one else notices?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My God, you're crazy.
Do not assault people whom you mistakenly believe to be mean to you. They're not. Stop it. Go see a therapist.
I said I'm not planning on it! I was just curious if it would be effective. Genuinely.
Effective at what? Making them realize you are a nut job?
People who go around getting offended like you have a screw loose.
Anonymous
11/13/2025 09:51
Subject: Unorthodox ways to deal with people who are passive aggressive to you in group settings, but no one else notices?
No way. I know two people who got broken toes from being stepped on. Far better ways to handle without physical violence.
Anonymous
11/13/2025 09:10
Subject: Unorthodox ways to deal with people who are passive aggressive to you in group settings, but no one else notices?
Just say “what do you mean by that” in front of others. They will try to squirm, so dig deeper. “ I still don’t understand. Are you implying…?”
Anonymous
11/13/2025 09:06
Subject: Unorthodox ways to deal with people who are passive aggressive to you in group settings, but no one else notices?
Just be passive aggressive back? Push all their buttons mentally?
Anonymous
11/12/2025 20:18
Subject: Unorthodox ways to deal with people who are passive aggressive to you in group settings, but no one else notices?
Talk to them one-on-one to straighten them out.
If you do it in front of the "herd" then they might take your side, or might think you unhinged and crazy.
Do it one-on-one, and really scare them straight, then if they go to the group, the groupl would think her unhinged and be like "Oh little ole Sally, she's such a quiet sweetie! You are cray!"
If you do it in front of the "herd" then they might take your side, or might think you unhinged and crazy.
Do it one-on-one, and really scare them straight, then if they go to the group, the groupl would think her unhinged and be like "Oh little ole Sally, she's such a quiet sweetie! You are cray!"
Anonymous
11/12/2025 20:16
Subject: Unorthodox ways to deal with people who are passive aggressive to you in group settings, but no one else notices?
Anonymous wrote:My God, you're crazy.
Do not assault people whom you mistakenly believe to be mean to you. They're not. Stop it. Go see a therapist.
I said I'm not planning on it! I was just curious if it would be effective. Genuinely.
Anonymous
11/12/2025 20:14
Subject: Unorthodox ways to deal with people who are passive aggressive to you in group settings, but no one else notices?
My God, you're crazy.
Do not assault people whom you mistakenly believe to be mean to you. They're not. Stop it. Go see a therapist.
Do not assault people whom you mistakenly believe to be mean to you. They're not. Stop it. Go see a therapist.
Anonymous
11/12/2025 20:12
Subject: Unorthodox ways to deal with people who are passive aggressive to you in group settings, but no one else notices?
Wait, this doesn't really belong in the relationships forum either. Nevermind. Please respond to this.
Anonymous
11/12/2025 20:11
Subject: Unorthodox ways to deal with people who are passive aggressive to you in group settings, but no one else notices?
I'm sorry, ignore. I meant to post this in the relationships forum. I'm reposting there. Don't respond to this.
Anonymous
11/12/2025 20:11
Subject: Unorthodox ways to deal with people who are passive aggressive to you in group settings, but no one else notices?
A friend of mine suggested you step on their foot really hard and then apologize profusely, that way they look insane if they start ranting about you, the same way you'd look insane if you started ranting about their passive-aggressive behavior.
I wouldn't do such a thing, but curious what you guys think about the effectiveness of such a move.
I wouldn't do such a thing, but curious what you guys think about the effectiveness of such a move.