Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If you don't want it, get rid of it. Otherwise, it's tacky to complain about gifts.
It is?
I work with a lady who tells a funny story about getting a crappy wedding gift like a colored bowl from Ikea only to find a note at the bottom of the box saying "Merry Christmas Tom!"
It was a regift and a shitty one at that. Calling out behavior like that isnt tacky. It's the price you pay for being cheap.
Anonymous wrote:We recently moved from DC to Chicago. This is the first move we've had in 21 years so we went through all the attic stuff to purge first and came across some truly atrocious wedding presents we got back in 2022. These included the following massive Waterford Crystal glass Globe. It's literally the size of a basketball. Why anyone would think this was an appropriate gift for a 25 year old couple with a registry and zero kitchen goods is beyond me. Even more perplexing is the gift was from my spouse's childhood best friend who actually knows us.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/1527250653/stunning-waterford-crystal-times-square
Another was this repulsive and incredibly cheap colored bowl given to us by a very wealthy family that used it as a collective gift from 6 of the family member's that came. Six guests pooling together for a $40 gift???
https://go-leasing24.info/articles/a-practical-guide-for-individuals.html
What was the worst gift you got?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I find it mildly horrifying that you would critique gifts. Maybe just be grateful people thought of you and donate the gifts you don't like?
I am grateful people came to my wedding, or sent gifts or congratulations. I'm not about to parse their taste or financial contribution, or lack thereof. That would be rude.
Bless your heart. Be sure to invite me to your DD's wedding so I send her a bag of M&Ms.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If you don't want it, get rid of it. Otherwise, it's tacky to complain about gifts.
It is?
I work with a lady who tells a funny story about getting a crappy wedding gift like a colored bowl from Ikea only to find a note at the bottom of the box saying "Merry Christmas Tom!"
It was a regift and a shitty one at that. Calling out behavior like that isnt tacky. It's the price you pay for being cheap.
Anonymous wrote:If you don't want it, get rid of it. Otherwise, it's tacky to complain about gifts.
Anonymous wrote:I find it mildly horrifying that you would critique gifts. Maybe just be grateful people thought of you and donate the gifts you don't like?
I am grateful people came to my wedding, or sent gifts or congratulations. I'm not about to parse their taste or financial contribution, or lack thereof. That would be rude.