You desperately need to pee, so you hang in some random driveway hoping someone comes out.

I was the poster ages ago, maybe 2-3 years ago, who posted about my idiot now ex-DH letting someone into our foyer on New Years’ Eve who said they needed to use the bathroom and I asked her to leave. I still think about that night and it gives me an unsettled feeling. After that exDH did a lot of other dumb stuff that led to him being exDH.

You don’t corner someone on the street asking to use a bathroom. Was this street parking? If so, how did she know you lived nearby? And if it was a driveway, it’s scary to come up to someone in the dark in their driveway.

If there’s a window, check that it’s locked from the inside and hasn’t been tampered with.

Unless you live by a softball field without a bathroom and this was a group of desperate 9 year old girls and it was broad daylight (half my team did this once, I still can’t believe the owner of the house said yes!), don’t let randos come inside to use your bathroom at night.

Anyone who would ask a stranger to use their home bathroom is not on their right mind. WHO does this???? No one.

Agree with PP: looking for medicine or unlocking a window for later.

Anonymous wrote:This evening while at my BF’s house, I ran out to my car to get something and a female (I honestly could not tell if she was 14 or 40) approached me to ask to use the bathroom, saying she needed to pee badly.

I said I needed to ask my BF so I ran in and got him. He said okay, and she used the downstairs bathroom.

After she left, we checked. She hadn’t flushed, and there wasn’t very much pee in the toilet. We checked everywhere to see if she had stashed something and nothing.

Any idea what this could have been? I’m hoping it was a legit bathroom emergency but there really wasn’t very much pee so now I’m worried. I watched her walk away down the street and she left the neighborhood.

Are you seriously this clueless?

You need some street smarts yo. She was checking the medicine cabinet and stuff for prescriptions to steal and what not.

I pee a ton and it barely has any color because I hydrate religiously. At most my pee is very light straw color and depending on the color of the toilet and whether it’s very clean or not so clean, you can’t see my pee.

You have NO idea how many mLs she left in your toilet, poster.

There is no way you could tell how much she peed. But yeah, she was probably looking for drugs.

Anonymous wrote:Looking for medications?

+1

Who lets complete strangers use their bathroom?! What planet do you live on?

Robbers. Check all your locks. Are your keys and fobs accounted for?
Purse, wallet?
Never let anyone in. Honestly, I have pulled down pants and peed outside.

If she badly wanted to pee, maybe it was very diluted and you couldn't really see it in the bowl. Or maybe she has a condition where she feels the urge, even though there isn't much to expel.

Anyway, thank you and BF for letting her use your bathroom. I recall a similar thread where the OP didn't, and that didn't feel right.

I hate that I can’t trust people anymore but I would have said no. I imagine she’s looking at the layout to let someone else know how to break in.

What do you mean she didn’t flush? Like if I was gonna fake use a bathroom I’d flush.

Check the doors and windows.

Looking for medications?

This evening while at my BF’s house, I ran out to my car to get something and a female (I honestly could not tell if she was 14 or 40) approached me to ask to use the bathroom, saying she needed to pee badly.

I said I needed to ask my BF so I ran in and got him. He said okay, and she used the downstairs bathroom.

After she left, we checked. She hadn’t flushed, and there wasn’t very much pee in the toilet. We checked everywhere to see if she had stashed something and nothing.

Any idea what this could have been? I’m hoping it was a legit bathroom emergency but there really wasn’t very much pee so now I’m worried. I watched her walk away down the street and she left the neighborhood.