Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Well I’m at the meet and saw my kid swim and timed him so I know his time. Not sure what the big deal is.
The obsessive spreadsheet parents need to get ahead of their data entry for their kid and all their rivals today or their whole weekend is just ruined.
There is truth in this statement. I have had multiple swimmers (big family) and of varying levels and interest. I have one kid swimming D1, another that will be done after high school, and two that might swim club in college. I was an athlete (not a swimmer) and were a number of siblings. The obsessive parents - those focused on time drops every time, comparing their swimmer to their friends, needling the coaches or constantly telling coaches what their kids should work on, the 13&O kid that it is still crying after every race they did not time drop, they are not long for this sport. When a kid is running to mom and dad in the stands instead of talking to their coach about what happened in the water first - they will wash out once mom and dad are not there to micromanage them. It is sad, because those parents are stealing the joy of the sport and ruining it.
I hope that some will change their ways, but they won't. Then they will wonder why their kid quit or failed, and all the red flags were there for years.