Anonymous
11/09/2025 09:44
Subject: Sugar Dating
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Women were property. They had to exchange things to get shelter and goods of their own. In the 1970s and 1980s women started working for pay en masse.
Since the 1970s, some average/middle income women accumulated money to spend freely (eg discretionary spending). As a response, some men have reacted by getting in on the game — and exchanging their services (attention / affection /car repairs) for women. They receive money, goods and other not-easily-monetized services.
You can substitute any gender / orientation into this common and age-old scenario
That’s just not true. Women worked together with men since the beginning of humanity. It is the wealth accumulation in capitalism era allowed some men to take women as property
Ok… Capitalism era is a very long time. Are you talking Adam Smith era?
Either way this exchange is not new -/ and I don’t think people should continue to feign shock and express judgement. It’s silly
Anonymous
11/09/2025 09:42
Subject: Sugar Dating
physiologically. did they have difficult childhoods?
The show I am watching suggests this
The show I am watching suggests this
Anonymous
11/09/2025 09:38
Subject: Sugar Dating
I don’t understand the Bondage
Does the women get bound up and injured too? Do you sign contracts showing that it’s voluntary — and by written agreement?
I am so confused because it sounds weird to me to enter into such a situation with a stranger with no contract or rules. Is the illegality of consensual abuse and risk taking part of the thrill.
A number or teens still makeup for fun/ I future it’s the same time of thrill ? But an adult version with strangers in a private room? Someone explain this practice to me and what it does physiologically.
Does the women get bound up and injured too? Do you sign contracts showing that it’s voluntary — and by written agreement?
I am so confused because it sounds weird to me to enter into such a situation with a stranger with no contract or rules. Is the illegality of consensual abuse and risk taking part of the thrill.
A number or teens still makeup for fun/ I future it’s the same time of thrill ? But an adult version with strangers in a private room? Someone explain this practice to me and what it does physiologically.
Anonymous
11/09/2025 09:36
Subject: Sugar Dating
Anonymous wrote:Women were property. They had to exchange things to get shelter and goods of their own. In the 1970s and 1980s women started working for pay en masse.
Since the 1970s, some average/middle income women accumulated money to spend freely (eg discretionary spending). As a response, some men have reacted by getting in on the game — and exchanging their services (attention / affection /car repairs) for women. They receive money, goods and other not-easily-monetized services.
You can substitute any gender / orientation into this common and age-old scenario
That’s just not true. Women worked together with men since the beginning of humanity. It is the wealth accumulation in capitalism era allowed some men to take women as property
Anonymous
11/09/2025 09:27
Subject: Sugar Dating
Women were property. They had to exchange things to get shelter and goods of their own. In the 1970s and 1980s women started working for pay en masse.
Since the 1970s, some average/middle income women accumulated money to spend freely (eg discretionary spending). As a response, some men have reacted by getting in on the game — and exchanging their services (attention / affection /car repairs) for women. They receive money, goods and other not-easily-monetized services.
You can substitute any gender / orientation into this common and age-old scenario
Since the 1970s, some average/middle income women accumulated money to spend freely (eg discretionary spending). As a response, some men have reacted by getting in on the game — and exchanging their services (attention / affection /car repairs) for women. They receive money, goods and other not-easily-monetized services.
You can substitute any gender / orientation into this common and age-old scenario
Anonymous
11/08/2025 23:07
Subject: Re:Sugar Dating
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Expect no dates . Just extreme sex - BDSM, threesomes, anal and he’ll pay you to leave each time
It will be either that, or a guy who wants you to do 120% of the work, jackhammers at you for too long after taking Viagra, and then whines and cries about how his wife is so meeeeeaaaan and he hates his life soooooo much.
This sounds really specific. Got some life experience?
Yes, life experience with men in general. Especially older men. Do you not have that experience yet? Or are you in denial about the types of men who hire expensive pr*stitutes?
So dish on some of your prostitute experiences as a sugar baby.
Anonymous
11/08/2025 23:07
Subject: Re:Sugar Dating
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Expect no dates . Just extreme sex - BDSM, threesomes, anal and he’ll pay you to leave each time
It will be either that, or a guy who wants you to do 120% of the work, jackhammers at you for too long after taking Viagra, and then whines and cries about how his wife is so meeeeeaaaan and he hates his life soooooo much.
This sounds really specific. Got some life experience?
Yes, life experience with men in general. Especially older men. Do you not have that experience yet? Or are you in denial about the types of men who hire expensive pr*stitutes?
Anonymous
11/08/2025 23:04
Subject: Re:Sugar Dating
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Expect no dates . Just extreme sex - BDSM, threesomes, anal and he’ll pay you to leave each time
It will be either that, or a guy who wants you to do 120% of the work, jackhammers at you for too long after taking Viagra, and then whines and cries about how his wife is so meeeeeaaaan and he hates his life soooooo much.
This sounds really specific. Got some life experience?
Anonymous
11/08/2025 23:02
Subject: Re:Sugar Dating
Anonymous wrote:Expect no dates . Just extreme sex - BDSM, threesomes, anal and he’ll pay you to leave each time
It will be either that, or a guy who wants you to do 120% of the work, jackhammers at you for too long after taking Viagra, and then whines and cries about how his wife is so meeeeeaaaan and he hates his life soooooo much.
Anonymous
11/08/2025 22:53
Subject: Sugar Dating
Anonymous wrote:I'm curious what this is like in reality.
If you are a guy (assuming older) or girl (assuming younger) who has been in a real sugar situation, I'd love to hear some specifics. What was exchanged for what? What were the dates like? What were the expectations? How long have the relationships lasted? What were the ages on both sides?
Get your apartment or house rent paid for and maybe some spending money.
You arrange a schedule for him to stay over or you are available to him only on certain days/times. Rest of the time is your own but probably cannot have sex with anyone else.
The more money you get, probably the more demands there are. Would just make sense.
Anonymous
11/08/2025 21:58
Subject: Sugar Dating
I suggest therapy instead.
This is not a healthy instinct on your part.
This is not a healthy instinct on your part.
Anonymous
11/08/2025 21:47
Subject: Sugar Dating
Guys in your 50s, I'd love to hear your experiences here.
I'm considering exploring this area.
I'm considering exploring this area.
Anonymous
11/06/2025 23:09
Subject: Re:Sugar Dating
Expect no dates . Just extreme sex - BDSM, threesomes, anal and he’ll pay you to leave each time
Anonymous
11/06/2025 22:58
Subject: Sugar Dating
Anonymous wrote:I'm curious what this is like in reality.
If you are a guy (assuming older) or girl (assuming younger) who has been in a real sugar situation, I'd love to hear some specifics. What was exchanged for what? What were the dates like? What were the expectations? How long have the relationships lasted? What were the ages on both sides?
My friend’s husband did this in a state where cheating could be used as evidence to determine the amount of alimony (there are surprisingly many states, even no-fault states, that factor it in for alimony). Her attorney used evidence of his wasting marital property on his affairs to get her a hefty lifetime alimony award.
Anonymous
11/06/2025 22:53
Subject: Sugar Dating
I'm curious what this is like in reality.
If you are a guy (assuming older) or girl (assuming younger) who has been in a real sugar situation, I'd love to hear some specifics. What was exchanged for what? What were the dates like? What were the expectations? How long have the relationships lasted? What were the ages on both sides?
If you are a guy (assuming older) or girl (assuming younger) who has been in a real sugar situation, I'd love to hear some specifics. What was exchanged for what? What were the dates like? What were the expectations? How long have the relationships lasted? What were the ages on both sides?