Anonymous
Post 11/13/2025 13:10     Subject: Can you have a good sex life but a bad marriage?

Anonymous wrote:For me, the chemistry is always off the charts with the wrong types of men.


1000 times this. Why is this? The best sex of my life included an alcoholic and an artist who could barely pay the rent.
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2025 20:37     Subject: Can you have a good sex life but a bad marriage?

In our case no - if there are any issues with the marriage then the sex won't be good.
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2025 20:35     Subject: Can you have a good sex life but a bad marriage?

For me, the chemistry is always off the charts with the wrong types of men.
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2025 20:09     Subject: Can you have a good sex life but a bad marriage?

Nope
Anonymous
Post 11/06/2025 11:21     Subject: Can you have a good sex life but a bad marriage?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Not only possible, I'd say that it's probably not even uncommon. Some of the things that make a person an exciting sexual partner make them a terrible long-term partner and vice versa.


This. The best sex of my life was with men who burned hot and made terrible partners.

Currently with a man who is a fantastic partner, more than I ever thought was possible, but sex is pretty vanilla. I try to spice it up but he’s just too calm and stable. We still have sex several times a week, and is satisfying, but not the same level of intensity.


"I know you love me, but you need to f**k me like you hate me!"
Oh so true. I have found that a little hair pull and butt slap go a long way to scratching that itch.
Anonymous
Post 11/06/2025 11:00     Subject: Can you have a good sex life but a bad marriage?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Not only possible, I'd say that it's probably not even uncommon. Some of the things that make a person an exciting sexual partner make them a terrible long-term partner and vice versa.


This. The best sex of my life was with men who burned hot and made terrible partners.

Currently with a man who is a fantastic partner, more than I ever thought was possible, but sex is pretty vanilla. I try to spice it up but he’s just too calm and stable. We still have sex several times a week, and is satisfying, but not the same level of intensity.


"I know you love me, but you need to f**k me like you hate me!"
Anonymous
Post 11/05/2025 18:25     Subject: Can you have a good sex life but a bad marriage?

Anonymous wrote:Not only possible, I'd say that it's probably not even uncommon. Some of the things that make a person an exciting sexual partner make them a terrible long-term partner and vice versa.


This. The best sex of my life was with men who burned hot and made terrible partners.

Currently with a man who is a fantastic partner, more than I ever thought was possible, but sex is pretty vanilla. I try to spice it up but he’s just too calm and stable. We still have sex several times a week, and is satisfying, but not the same level of intensity.
Anonymous
Post 11/05/2025 18:03     Subject: Re:Can you have a good sex life but a bad marriage?

I actually think you can if there is physical chemistry, and you are both on the same page about sex.
Anonymous
Post 11/05/2025 17:30     Subject: Can you have a good sex life but a bad marriage?

Not for me.
Anonymous
Post 11/05/2025 17:28     Subject: Can you have a good sex life but a bad marriage?

Anonymous wrote:Is this possible?


Yes, I did it for years. The secret was to sleep with people who were not my wife. Had a very robust sex life, in fact. The marriage was mid and then deteriorated. Apparently she didn't want to sleep with me but didn't want others sleeping with me, either.

Oh well.
Anonymous
Post 11/05/2025 17:26     Subject: Can you have a good sex life but a bad marriage?

Anonymous wrote:Yes. We were having passionate, adventurous sex the whole time my husband was having one night stands.

Sounds just like my ex. Where are you located? 😄
Anonymous
Post 11/05/2025 11:58     Subject: Can you have a good sex life but a bad marriage?

Not only possible, I'd say that it's probably not even uncommon. Some of the things that make a person an exciting sexual partner make them a terrible long-term partner and vice versa.
Anonymous
Post 11/05/2025 11:44     Subject: Can you have a good sex life but a bad marriage?

Yes. We were having passionate, adventurous sex the whole time my husband was having one night stands.
Anonymous
Post 11/05/2025 11:18     Subject: Can you have a good sex life but a bad marriage?

Sure that's why a lot of people got married only to find it wasn't a good choice. Use birth control.
Anonymous
Post 11/05/2025 11:17     Subject: Can you have a good sex life but a bad marriage?

Is this possible?