Anonymous wrote:I saw that if domestic violence is involved I can be excused from having to attend the class. If my wife hit me and I have proof, would that give me grounds to be allowed to not attend the class?

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Anonymous wrote:You are making excuses for why this parenting class wasn't a priority. You're a grown adult - you shouldn't need your mommy reminding you of when you need to be where.

I work for attorneys and just a couple weeks ago watched one leave a conference early to fly to Chicago in order to support his daughter running a marathon. When your kids are important to you, you prioritize them. You didn't prioritize your kids.

I think that working 60 hours a week to make money for my kids should be considered more important than a 4 hour class that I don't even need.

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Anonymous wrote:Do you not have a calendar feature on your phone or computer?

It was only in the original court filings and not something that I was given separately from my attorney. I didn't think it was expected that I would go through every single legal document myself. That's the whole point of paying $500/hour to an attorney and who knows how much to his paralegals. If I wanted to manage it myself I would have filed without representation.

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Anonymous wrote:You are making excuses for why this parenting class wasn't a priority. You're a grown adult - you shouldn't need your mommy reminding you of when you need to be where.

I work for attorneys and just a couple weeks ago watched one leave a conference early to fly to Chicago in order to support his daughter running a marathon. When your kids are important to you, you prioritize them. You didn't prioritize your kids.

I think that working 60 hours a week to make money for my kids should be considered more important than a 4 hour class that I don't even need.

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Anonymous wrote:DH going through a divorce in MD. I'm the petitioner. I didn't make the deadline for taking the parenting class I was supposed to do after filing. I forgot but honestly but am surprised that my attorney did not watch this deadline for me and didn't remind me at some point.

Until I can get a hold of my attorney on Monday, can anyone tell me how bad this is going to look for me? I am trying to get 50/50 custody or more.

MoCo is pretty strict. I had a good excuse to simply change the date of my parenting class and my request was refused. As a result, I missed my child receiving an award.

Anonymous wrote:Do you not have a calendar feature on your phone or computer?

Anonymous wrote:DH going through a divorce in MD. I'm the petitioner. I didn't make the deadline for taking the parenting class I was supposed to do after filing. I forgot but honestly but am surprised that my attorney did not watch this deadline for me and didn't remind me at some point.

Until I can get a hold of my attorney on Monday, can anyone tell me how bad this is going to look for me? I am trying to get 50/50 custody or more.

Anonymous wrote:You are making excuses for why this parenting class wasn't a priority. You're a grown adult - you shouldn't need your mommy reminding you of when you need to be where.

I work for attorneys and just a couple weeks ago watched one leave a conference early to fly to Chicago in order to support his daughter running a marathon. When your kids are important to you, you prioritize them. You didn't prioritize your kids.

Anonymous wrote:For someone mandated to take a parenting class whose first instinct is to blame his attorney, I'm going to guess it won't go well for you.

The best you can do is register right now, today, with a start date as soon as possible and show the court you are working in good faith to correct YOUR error.

You may also want to look at your tendency to overlook deadlines and shift blame. You may find other things that will help you improve yourself and your co-parenting abilities.