Anonymous
Post 11/02/2025 20:28     Subject: Gifts for adult child's SO
Anonymous wrote:Save sentimental family jewelry for after the wedding, better yet, save it for a granddaughter


And if there is no granddaughter? It gets sold for scrap.
Anonymous
Post 11/01/2025 13:45     Subject: Gifts for adult child's SO
Anonymous wrote:Pricey gifts yes, family stuff no

But it's great that you like her enough to even consider it ๐Ÿ˜€


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Anonymous
Post 10/31/2025 07:24     Subject: Gifts for adult child's SO
Pricey gifts yes, family stuff no

But it's great that you like her enough to even consider it ๐Ÿ˜€
Anonymous
Post 10/30/2025 19:46     Subject: Gifts for adult child's SO
Family jewelry to blood relatives only imo. Save for their future daughter if they get wind up married.
Anonymous
Post 10/20/2025 16:30     Subject: Gifts for adult child's SO
The most I give is nice boots, slippers, etc.
Anonymous
Post 10/20/2025 16:29     Subject: Gifts for adult child's SO
Anonymous wrote:Anything you give is theirs to keep so save it for your grandkids and buy a nice piece of jewerly for her instead.



Agree with the above. You give family jewelry to a gf or wife and they breakup or divorce you will never see that jewelry again. Buy a piece for them but save heirlooms for grandchildren.
Anonymous
Post 10/18/2025 18:13     Subject: Gifts for adult child's SO
Anything you give is theirs to keep so save it for your grandkids and buy a nice piece of jewerly for her instead.
Anonymous
Post 10/18/2025 18:10     Subject: Gifts for adult child's SO
No family jewelry until marriage.
Anonymous
Post 10/18/2025 18:10     Subject: Gifts for adult child's SO
Nope not until they are married.
Anonymous
Post 10/18/2025 18:09     Subject: Gifts for adult child's SO
Nope.
They arenโ€™t engaged or married
Anonymous
Post 10/18/2025 07:36     Subject: Gifts for adult child's SO
Agree to wait until after wedding at least.
Anonymous
Post 10/18/2025 05:45     Subject: Gifts for adult child's SO
Save sentimental family jewelry for after the wedding, better yet, save it for a granddaughter
Anonymous
Post 10/18/2025 05:23     Subject: Gifts for adult child's SO
Its her 30th birthday.
Anonymous
Post 10/18/2025 05:22     Subject: Gifts for adult child's SO
*family
Anonymous
Post 10/18/2025 05:21     Subject: Gifts for adult child's SO
Do you save pricy gifts until after engagement, wait for marriage or being steady? I was thinking of giving DS's SO something from faily jewlry but my BFF advised against it as she gave some heirloom puece to her DS's then GF and they broke up. Now she can't take it back but feels like it was meant for his wife. WWYD?