Anonymous wrote:What’s most attractive to you? Choose some physical attributes and some non-physical attributes.

Smile and kindness.

Anonymous wrote:Bring your A-game, men. And if it doesn’t include 6-6-6-6, don’t waste my time.

+1

No scrubs.

Bring your A-game, men. And if it doesn’t include 6-6-6-6, don’t waste my time.

Anyway, to answer the actual question, physical: I'm always attracted to a nice smile and laugh a nice speaking voice.Typically guys who are taller than me. There's other things that I'm physically attracted to but those are more person specific.

Non physical genuinely kind to everyone. Doesn't take themselves to seriously. A good sense of humor. Someone who is a doer but not for show or praise. Who takes responsibility Someone who isn't a bean counter. Someone who respects boundaries. Someone who isn't judgemental who can say I don't understand it don't think it's for me, but that's all right you do you. Someone who doesn't whine or complain constantly. Someone willing to try new things willing to be flexible.

Anonymous wrote:Honesty. Integrity. Kindness. A sense of humor. Patience. Self-discipline. Conflict resolution skills. Faith. Loyalty.

kind eyes and a nice smile, but the physical stuff may fade (and will, on a long enough timeline). Character is a much better metric for attraction. Being attracted to who someone is, not (just) what they look like, makes for a more solid foundation for any sort of relationship.

Why do posters do this? Is it so hard to answer a question and not be preachy? Insufferable.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honesty. Integrity. Kindness. A sense of humor. Patience. Self-discipline. Conflict resolution skills. Faith. Loyalty.

kind eyes and a nice smile, but the physical stuff may fade (and will, on a long enough timeline). Character is a much better metric for attraction. Being attracted to who someone is, not (just) what they look like, makes for a more solid foundation for any sort of relationship.

Ha!!!! I hear cheaters say this, while married and actively cheating with someone married. Their AP is so honest and of great character. Lmaof

Take your trauma elsewhere.

Confidence. Humor. Lean. Rich voice. Competent. Calm. Team player. Humanitarian. Open minded.

Killer rack, narrow waist and wide hips, aka hourglass for women.
Confident and pleasant personality for both men and women, kindness, sense of humor and humility. Must love dogs.

Nonphysical: Sense of humor, intelligence, someone to have an interesting conversation with

Physical: A pretty face, soft skin, sleek hair

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honesty. Integrity. Kindness. A sense of humor. Patience. Self-discipline. Conflict resolution skills. Faith. Loyalty.

kind eyes and a nice smile, but the physical stuff may fade (and will, on a long enough timeline). Character is a much better metric for attraction. Being attracted to who someone is, not (just) what they look like, makes for a more solid foundation for any sort of relationship.

Ha!!!! I hear cheaters say this, while married and actively cheating with someone married. Their AP is so honest and of great character. Lmaof

You hang out with people of bad character so clearly it doesn’t mean much to you either.

Anonymous wrote:Honesty. Integrity. Kindness. A sense of humor. Patience. Self-discipline. Conflict resolution skills. Faith. Loyalty.

kind eyes and a nice smile, but the physical stuff may fade (and will, on a long enough timeline). Character is a much better metric for attraction. Being attracted to who someone is, not (just) what they look like, makes for a more solid foundation for any sort of relationship.

Ha!!!! I hear cheaters say this, while married and actively cheating with someone married. Their AP is so honest and of great character. Lmaof

Anonymous wrote:Honesty. Integrity. Kindness. A sense of humor. Patience. Self-discipline. Conflict resolution skills. Faith. Loyalty.

kind eyes and a nice smile, but the physical stuff may fade (and will, on a long enough timeline). Character is a much better metric for attraction. Being attracted to who someone is, not (just) what they look like, makes for a more solid foundation for any sort of relationship.

Agree with this but would add after 25 years DW is still beautiful if not more attractive then when we met. When you really love someone I don't think you notice the looks fading. Not yet at least the next 25 years will surely age us more

Nice arms and chest on a man. Not bulky, but toned and fit. Chiseled features, but not that chiseled. I don't like pretty men, either.

Honesty. Integrity. Kindness. A sense of humor. Patience. Self-discipline. Conflict resolution skills. Faith. Loyalty.

kind eyes and a nice smile, but the physical stuff may fade (and will, on a long enough timeline). Character is a much better metric for attraction. Being attracted to who someone is, not (just) what they look like, makes for a more solid foundation for any sort of relationship.

What’s most attractive to you? Choose some physical attributes and some non-physical attributes.