Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 15:54     Subject: How common do you think swinging is?

Quite rare, I imagine. But of course it happens.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 15:51     Subject: How common do you think swinging is?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Do you know anyone that does?


Its not very common and there are two types of couples who do it, ones who hide it as a secret and one who tries to proof and turn it into a norm. Normal people don't swing. If they are unhappy, they work on their marriage or divorce.


Oh, if you only knew...
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 15:48     Subject: How common do you think swinging is?

I know two couples that do this. I would guess it's more than 1% of marriages, less than 10%? That's just a guess though.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 15:41     Subject: How common do you think swinging is?

Anonymous wrote:DH and I used to have threesome/foursomes in our younger years and knew quite a few people who did too. Then kids come into the picture and it becomes less common. It's been probably about 2 years for us. Our thing is that DH loves to see me with others


How old are you?
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 15:40     Subject: How common do you think swinging is?

I only know previously married people who were into it.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 15:40     Subject: How common do you think swinging is?

Anonymous wrote:Our thing is that DH loves to see me with others


Its just sad on so many levels.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 15:39     Subject: How common do you think swinging is?

I know people that are into it. Not my thing or DHs thing, but I don’t judge.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 15:38     Subject: How common do you think swinging is?

Anonymous wrote:Do you know anyone that does?


Its not very common and there are two types of couples who do it, ones who hide it as a secret and one who tries to proof and turn it into a norm. Normal people don't swing. If they are unhappy, they work on their marriage or divorce.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 15:37     Subject: How common do you think swinging is?

DH and I used to have threesome/foursomes in our younger years and knew quite a few people who did too. Then kids come into the picture and it becomes less common. It's been probably about 2 years for us. Our thing is that DH loves to see me with others
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 15:32     Subject: Re:How common do you think swinging is?

Swinging is more common than you think, but it's going out of fashion because younger generations are more likely to have semi-fluid boundaries in their relationships anyway. They don't need to swing.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 15:31     Subject: How common do you think swinging is?


+ 1 Who cares
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 15:30     Subject: How common do you think swinging is?

I really have no interest in knowing whether any of my friends or families are swingers. No judgment, it’s just more info than I need.

If I had to guess it’s more common than you think but still not very common.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 15:30     Subject: How common do you think swinging is?

Men telling their wives it's common is common.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 15:28     Subject: How common do you think swinging is?

Tell yourself it’s super common if that turns you on.

Tell yourself it’s not common if that makes you feel better.

Who cares.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2025 15:26     Subject: How common do you think swinging is?

Do you know anyone that does?