Anonymous wrote:How poorly is your son doing? Also are you sure there are no undiagnosed learning issues?
I second checking for undiagnosed learning issues, ADHD, and/or any kind of unresolved trauma or conflict that could be playing a role in his life. Similarly, a lack of quality sleep can severely impede learning and could be a factor to look for as well.
If there are no learning difficulties or life conflicts present and your son just "isn't college material" there are some very high paying skilled trade jobs out there, such as being an HVAC technician or plumber.
With that said, please be supportive of him and let him know you care and love him unconditionally, regardless of how his schooling plays out.