Anonymous
Post 09/18/2025 22:04     Subject: Do you judge potential partners by their social media?
Anonymous wrote:Yes, if they post a lot and have a lot of friends it’s a turn-off. Makes me think they’re insecure and need validation. Nothing sexier than someone who’s selective with social
media.


+1
Anonymous
Post 09/18/2025 21:53     Subject: Do you judge potential partners by their social media?
Yes. Vain and waste of timen
Anonymous
Post 09/18/2025 20:57     Subject: Do you judge potential partners by their social media?
Anonymous wrote:Yes, if they post a lot and have a lot of friends it’s a turn-off. Makes me think they’re insecure and need validation. Nothing sexier than someone who’s selective with social
media.


Yes . You
Anonymous
Post 09/18/2025 20:52     Subject: Do you judge potential partners by their social media?
Yes, if they post a lot and have a lot of friends it’s a turn-off. Makes me think they’re insecure and need validation. Nothing sexier than someone who’s selective with social
media.
Anonymous
Post 09/18/2025 20:26     Subject: Do you judge potential partners by their social media?
Anonymous wrote:Yes, I'd rather they had none. I have none. My husband has none. It's the rare person who can use it wisely and not get stuck in a bubble.


Similar, I'm ok with limited. I have a dead FB account I haven't checked in years, an Instagram where I never post, and a LinkedIn I look at only on occasions I switch jobs/titles. DH had nothing but I convinced him to get on LinkedIn when he was job hunting. It helped a bit then, I don't think he's checked it in like 7 years. Nothing else.

Do not relate to the following of bikini models and this would be a massive no for me.
Anonymous
Post 09/18/2025 20:11     Subject: Do you judge potential partners by their social media?
Following a soft core porn star is red flag. I won't date someone who already had a parasocial lover.

There's plenty of NSA porn available.
Anonymous
Post 09/18/2025 19:27     Subject: Do you judge potential partners by their social media?
Yes, I'd rather they had none. I have none. My husband has none. It's the rare person who can use it wisely and not get stuck in a bubble.
Anonymous
Post 09/18/2025 19:17     Subject: Do you judge potential partners by their social media?
If they follow a lot of women "scantily clad". If they follow women whose entire identity is only their looks. If they spend time on their phone rather than in a conversation with someone they're with.
Anonymous
Post 09/18/2025 19:15     Subject: Do you judge potential partners by their social media?
Are there any red or green flags in regards to social media use?


Red flag for me is following fitness models.

Green flag maybe following an author or something.