OP, here. Thanks for the perspective check.

It is a dumpster fire out there, and I’m glad no one thinks there’s anything purposeful going on. I do credit the podcast with helping to keep our heads and hearts in the right place. I rarely miss an episode. I do know the world of colleges is larger than UVA/Charlottesville and appreciate the reminder. Promise I’m not a UVA (or any other school) booster. Just a parent trying to navigate this process the best way we can; sometimes I’m not my best self and don’t take my own advice of “assuming positive intent.” I failed at that with YCBK in this instance.
Perhaps I will drop a note or comment in the listener survey. Thanks all!