Anonymous
09/15/2025 08:35
Subject: Would you marry knowing your spouse wouldn't sleep with you after a few years?
Anonymous wrote:This is the plight of most of the men that I know well enough for them to share aspects of their personal lives with me. They made a commitment and hope the woman they fell in love with will return to the body of the woman they are married to.
One of my friends actually admitted that their dead bedroom was his doing after catching his wife cheating while he was traveling for work. He just couldn’t stomach being with her, but was scared he would lose the ability to see his young kids. Marriage seems to be a death sentence for men these days.
Wrong. It’s the opposite. Women want more sex but cannot get it because most men have low libido and suffer from ED.
Anonymous
09/15/2025 08:29
Subject: Would you marry knowing your spouse wouldn't sleep with you after a few years?
Anonymous wrote:People are selfish, OP
Yeah, dudes who expect women to work, cook, clean, take care of kids, the family’s social life, aging parents etc etc and also be ready for porn Star sex with them
You guys are so so dumb
Anonymous
09/15/2025 08:15
Subject: Would you marry knowing your spouse wouldn't sleep with you after a few years?
“Do you want to?”
“Why”
“Why? Because I love you.”
“I didn’t ask you why. I said Y. We don’t have sex on days ending in Y.”
“But every day ends in Y”
“You can have New Years Eve”.
“And Christmas.”
“Christmas Day?”
“Christmas Eve!”
“Why?”
Anonymous
09/15/2025 08:14
Subject: Would you marry knowing your spouse wouldn't sleep with you after a few years?
People are selfish, OP
Anonymous
09/15/2025 07:35
Subject: Would you marry knowing your spouse wouldn't sleep with you after a few years?
Anonymous wrote:Lots of people post here about how they are angry or hurt by their spouse and refuse to sleep with them any longer. I don't understand why, unless there are young children at home, anyone would stay if they felt this way.
Did you believe when you get married that you'd be okay with someone forcing involuntary celibacy on you when you made your vows? If not, why do you think it's okay for your to impose celibacy on your spouse?
You dudes are so lame
Anonymous
09/15/2025 07:14
Subject: Would you marry knowing your spouse wouldn't sleep with you after a few years?
At this point, if I were to start over alone and start dating again, I would be THRILLED to find someone with low libido or libido that will eventually just stop. I don't care about sex that much anymore. It would be peaceful not to have to pretend.
Anonymous
09/15/2025 07:03
Subject: Would you marry knowing your spouse wouldn't sleep with you after a few years?
Anonymous wrote:Life and marriage are stressful enough. Adding perfectly matched libidos forever to the list of requirements in a partner just makes marriage not seem worth it.
I think marriage only really works between people who are able to adapt and accept the changes life brings. Many relationships are able to handle the good times but not the bad. I don't know if it's because we are inherently selfish and ultimately mostly care about our own pleasure and point of view.
Agreed. I would view withholding sex as punishment as a problem potentially worthy of divorce, but because of the punishment part, not the no sex part.
But no or low sex because of declining libido, health issues, stress, etc.? I'd be bummed but it's not the end of the world. I certainly wouldn't leave the person I'd created a whole life and multiple children with over it.
Anonymous
09/15/2025 06:57
Subject: Would you marry knowing your spouse wouldn't sleep with you after a few years?
I'm over marriage too. My ex cheated and felt entitled to porn star sex on demand.
Anonymous
09/15/2025 06:44
Subject: Would you marry knowing your spouse wouldn't sleep with you after a few years?
DH has the lower libido but honestly, it’s ok. It’s not my worst problem.
Anonymous
09/15/2025 06:01
Subject: Would you marry knowing your spouse wouldn't sleep with you after a few years?
I would, but it was never that important to me.
Anonymous
09/15/2025 03:49
Subject: Would you marry knowing your spouse wouldn't sleep with you after a few years?
Life and marriage are stressful enough. Adding perfectly matched libidos forever to the list of requirements in a partner just makes marriage not seem worth it.
I think marriage only really works between people who are able to adapt and accept the changes life brings. Many relationships are able to handle the good times but not the bad. I don't know if it's because we are inherently selfish and ultimately mostly care about our own pleasure and point of view.
I think marriage only really works between people who are able to adapt and accept the changes life brings. Many relationships are able to handle the good times but not the bad. I don't know if it's because we are inherently selfish and ultimately mostly care about our own pleasure and point of view.
Anonymous
09/15/2025 03:09
Subject: Would you marry knowing your spouse wouldn't sleep with you after a few years?
For some women, it becomes painful during menopause. I mean really, really painful.
They have no idea this is going to happen. What would you have them do.
They have no idea this is going to happen. What would you have them do.
Anonymous
09/15/2025 02:01
Subject: Would you marry knowing your spouse wouldn't sleep with you after a few years?
This is the plight of most of the men that I know well enough for them to share aspects of their personal lives with me. They made a commitment and hope the woman they fell in love with will return to the body of the woman they are married to.
One of my friends actually admitted that their dead bedroom was his doing after catching his wife cheating while he was traveling for work. He just couldn’t stomach being with her, but was scared he would lose the ability to see his young kids. Marriage seems to be a death sentence for men these days.
One of my friends actually admitted that their dead bedroom was his doing after catching his wife cheating while he was traveling for work. He just couldn’t stomach being with her, but was scared he would lose the ability to see his young kids. Marriage seems to be a death sentence for men these days.
Anonymous
09/15/2025 01:15
Subject: Would you marry knowing your spouse wouldn't sleep with you after a few years?
Nope.
Anonymous
09/15/2025 01:12
Subject: Would you marry knowing your spouse wouldn't sleep with you after a few years?
Lots of people post here about how they are angry or hurt by their spouse and refuse to sleep with them any longer. I don't understand why, unless there are young children at home, anyone would stay if they felt this way.
Did you believe when you get married that you'd be okay with someone forcing involuntary celibacy on you when you made your vows? If not, why do you think it's okay for your to impose celibacy on your spouse?
Did you believe when you get married that you'd be okay with someone forcing involuntary celibacy on you when you made your vows? If not, why do you think it's okay for your to impose celibacy on your spouse?