Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thanks for the helpful replies!
I have super straight, greasy hair. Most products make my hair limp, greasy, stringy etc, so i don't bother - because with straight hair it doesn't need taming. So mostly just hair spray for me when I need something. DS's hair is more untamed and needs something to keep it in check, or he looks like a homeless person. DH's 'rule' is that if he wants to keep long hair, he needs to use product in it. This doesn't seem an unreasonable negotiation with a 13 year old boy.
To the dad/teacher above who apparently is a smarter better parent than me: My DS is ASD. He's not, however, an a**hole like you.
But you are.