Anonymous
Post 09/13/2025 21:42     Subject: Re:was this sexual?
Anonymous wrote:1:00 and 2:30 show the gesture



That is definitely sexual
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2025 21:34     Subject: was this sexual?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, it's entirely inappropriate for a stranger to make this gesture to her at a place she volunteers. She should report the man to her boss.


Yes. Not in a like "I'm so traumatized" way, but to create a record of his behavior so he can be monitored and banned if necessary.

Absolutely. Paper trails are helpful.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2025 21:33     Subject: was this sexual?
Anonymous wrote:Was it another volunteer or staff member? That's not ok. If it was a client (like if she's volunteering at a homeless shelter) that's still not ok but somewhat more understandable if she's working with mentally ill or people with low impulse control. Either way, depending on how she feels, she should tell her supervisor and have them implement changes and/or stop volunteering there.

+1
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2025 21:23     Subject: was this sexual?
Anonymous wrote:OP, it's entirely inappropriate for a stranger to make this gesture to her at a place she volunteers. She should report the man to her boss.


Yes. Not in a like "I'm so traumatized" way, but to create a record of his behavior so he can be monitored and banned if necessary.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2025 21:19     Subject: Re:was this sexual?
1:00 and 2:30 show the gesture

Anonymous
Post 09/13/2025 21:19     Subject: was this sexual?
It was but what would you/your daughter do with that information?
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2025 21:15     Subject: was this sexual?
Was it another volunteer or staff member? That's not ok. If it was a client (like if she's volunteering at a homeless shelter) that's still not ok but somewhat more understandable if she's working with mentally ill or people with low impulse control. Either way, depending on how she feels, she should tell her supervisor and have them implement changes and/or stop volunteering there.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2025 21:12     Subject: was this sexual?
OP, it's entirely inappropriate for a stranger to make this gesture to her at a place she volunteers. She should report the man to her boss.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2025 21:08     Subject: was this sexual?
Yes it's sexual. It means he would like to do that to her.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2025 21:07     Subject: was this sexual?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why would you be concerned about your adult daughter’s sex life?


She’s only 21. Some parents still care. I know you don’t but OP does.



Only 21? She’s probably been sexually active for half a decade.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2025 21:04     Subject: was this sexual?
Did you ask her how it made her feel ?

She might be afraid or confused.

I hope it is not sexual harassment.

Such policies apply to volunteers as well.

Anonymous
Post 09/13/2025 21:02     Subject: was this sexual?
Anonymous wrote:Why would you be concerned about your adult daughter’s sex life?


She’s only 21. Some parents still care. I know you don’t but OP does.

Anonymous
Post 09/13/2025 21:00     Subject: was this sexual?
Why would you be concerned about your adult daughter’s sex life?
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2025 20:57     Subject: was this sexual?
I don’t know what that is. Link YouTube.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2025 20:55     Subject: was this sexual?

My daughter (21) told me a man she doesn’t know at her volunteering gig, came up to her and gave her the ”oral sign”.
I asked her what that is and she took out her tongue and it’s a quick wiggling motion. Like how the guy does it in Scarface to pick up women.

Is this a TikTok trend? Should I be concerned?