Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why are you monitoring him? Mind your own beezwax.

I am? As I said, it’s hard not to notice his distinctive vehicle as I come and go.

What type and color vehicle? This may lend a clue to his motivations/activities.

What is wrong with you people? Mind your own damn business.

Anonymous wrote:Is he “middle eastern looking”?

He’s not. What’s that have to do with anything?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Perhaps it is the young man version of the older man sitting in his car at a park for hours each day? He wants to be alone. He wants to be away from his house. He doesn't want to be in a crowded place or to spend money. He could be talking to his mom on the phone. He could be reading or listening to a podcast. Whatever he's doing, leave him to it.

Sure. But he should at least stop polluting.

Ok.

Anonymous wrote:Why are you monitoring him? Mind your own beezwax.

I am? As I said, it’s hard not to notice his distinctive vehicle as I come and go.

Anonymous wrote:Is he “middle eastern looking”?

I see what you did there.

Anonymous wrote:Perhaps it is the young man version of the older man sitting in his car at a park for hours each day? He wants to be alone. He wants to be away from his house. He doesn't want to be in a crowded place or to spend money. He could be talking to his mom on the phone. He could be reading or listening to a podcast. Whatever he's doing, leave him to it.

Sure. But he should at least stop polluting.

Perhaps it is the young man version of the older man sitting in his car at a park for hours each day? He wants to be alone. He wants to be away from his house. He doesn't want to be in a crowded place or to spend money. He could be talking to his mom on the phone. He could be reading or listening to a podcast. Whatever he's doing, leave him to it.

Maybe he is monitoring your comings and goings.

Way too consistent and obvious to be an intelligence drop. If he was bird watching, he'd be the type to cut the engine.

Weird.

Anonymous wrote:There’s a neighbor on my block, a single young man who moved in about a year ago. He lives alone, and he drives a very distinctive car, so it’s easy to recognize.

Here’s what I’ve noticed: several times a week (like 3–4 days), regardless of season or weather, he drives about three blocks over and parks in a lot next to a big empty field (where I think a school used to be). The field isn’t a park, just open land surrounded by houses. He sits in his car, engine running. Sometimes it’s morning, sometimes evening. He doesn’t leave the car, he just sits there; you can clearly see him sitting in the car.

What could someone be doing that regularly in a parked car, when they live alone and presumably have privacy at home? I’m just genuinely curious if anyone has seen similar behavior or has a benign explanation. Maybe I’m overthinking, but it’s such a consistent habit that it caught my attention.

I mean…what kind of non-benign explanation for this are you imagining?

Is he “middle eastern looking”?

Why are you monitoring him? Mind your own beezwax.

I should add, I notice him there during my comings and goings to/from work or errands, picking up my kids, and even on casual walks.

There’s a neighbor on my block, a single young man who moved in about a year ago. He lives alone, and he drives a very distinctive car, so it’s easy to recognize.

Here’s what I’ve noticed: several times a week (like 3–4 days), regardless of season or weather, he drives about three blocks over and parks in a lot next to a big empty field (where I think a school used to be). The field isn’t a park, just open land surrounded by houses. He sits in his car, engine running. Sometimes it’s morning, sometimes evening. He doesn’t leave the car, he just sits there; you can clearly see him sitting in the car.

What could someone be doing that regularly in a parked car, when they live alone and presumably have privacy at home? I’m just genuinely curious if anyone has seen similar behavior or has a benign explanation. Maybe I’m overthinking, but it’s such a consistent habit that it caught my attention.