Anonymous
Post 09/06/2025 21:52     Subject: NYC in November

I visit friends in NYC all the time and what I love about it is that literally anything goes and no one is thinking about you or your style. People I know who have lived there for decades dress no differently than we do here. Just normal clothes. Others love fashion and dress the part. There is no real tourist style and if someone seems like a tourist, no one cares or is looking at them/you. The only thing that is not in style is worrying about what’s in style. November is a great time for Fall clothes but you likely won’t need a heavy coat.
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2025 21:05     Subject: NYC in November

Just wear whatever you like that is practical for the weather. Nobody is looking at your clothes and for sure nobody cares if you’re a tourist, plus, you are one.
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2025 21:01     Subject: NYC in November

daytime- straight legged or slightly baggy med wash jeans, cashmere jumper, trench coat, style sneakers, suede slouchy bag

nighttime- dress, tights, trench coat
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2025 20:39     Subject: NYC in November

Quilted puffy jacket or coat
Fleece vest to layers need be
Gloves
Black pants or dark jeans
Sneakers or flat boots you can walk miles in
Secure bag…or tote…over shoulder….zips or closes
Hat
Sunglasses
Shirt or blouse you love

Baggu type bag for purchases

Sandals, high heels and white shoes say tourist and cause pain.

New Yorker here!
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2025 20:13     Subject: NYC in November

Is it your first time there? If so, I’d get feeling a bit intimidated, but really just dress like yourself — wear what’s comfortable and makes you feel confident.
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2025 18:20     Subject: NYC in November

Anonymous wrote:How heavy of a coat should I bring?... Not doing a ton of touristy stuff but do plan to be outside a fair amount


Check the weather a couple days before your trip? It's not that different from home, it might be very cold, it might not.
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2025 18:20     Subject: NYC in November

Anonymous wrote:How heavy of a coat should I bring?... Not doing a ton of touristy stuff but do plan to be outside a fair amount


We can't tell you that at this point... just like in DC it could be 40s or could be 50s/60s.
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2025 18:17     Subject: NYC in November

How heavy of a coat should I bring?... Not doing a ton of touristy stuff but do plan to be outside a fair amount
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2025 18:05     Subject: NYC in November

But you are a tourist. It will be obvious since you're sightseeing and not going to work. Why pretend you're a local?

Just wear a nice coat.
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2025 18:02     Subject: NYC in November

New Yorker here. Why do you care?

We don't.
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2025 17:41     Subject: NYC in November

It’s NYC, really anything goes.

Wear black, don’t wear fake bags bought on the street corner. It’s fall, try dark jeans and add some suede - jacket, boots or bag?
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2025 17:39     Subject: Re:NYC in November

It's really ok to be a tourist.
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2025 17:38     Subject: NYC in November

I mean if you're walking around Midtown, you're likely to be in a sea of tourists.

Just wear good walking shoes.
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2025 17:35     Subject: NYC in November

I'm a 40 year old mother of 3.
Anonymous
Post 09/06/2025 17:35     Subject: NYC in November

Heading to New York City in November. What are some must-have reasonably priced fashion pieces to not look like a complete tourist?.