Lots of other things, other than golf. I sometimes feel like a golf widow, but when it gets bad and I feel overwhelmed with work and kids, DH gives me time. So it's fine.

Easy stuff like bicycling, vacations, dinners out, some tv series.

But not stuff like water polo, running, outline levels are vastly different, reading (none vs everything), etc

And definitely not on the same page with cleaning!

We like to eat and travel together. We both read but mostly different types of books. Otherwise we pursue our own hobbies separatey.

Well we both like sex. So that’s one. We also both like broadway plays, trying new restaurants, going to beaches off-season, and working out, reading, etc. Then we each have a couple of our own.

I am in a casual choir and he comes along when he has time, but it's more my thing.

His hobby is restaurants, though he probably wouldn't put it that way. So that's a lot of our date nights and I go along with it even though I don't care anywhere near as much as he does.

I'd say common interests, but not hobbies. We both like theater, so we go together. We both like to read, mostly different books, but occasionally we'll stumble on something we both enjoy. In terms of stuff to do, we mostly do that separately, like I'm a birder and he crochets. I like to cook and he like to bake, so sometimes we do that in parallel, but not really together.

Pickleball, not always together but try to play together whenever possible.

Anonymous wrote:I would love to have a shared hobby. But no, no overlap.

We both read (different books). Of course we watch TV (different shows). I exercise (he does not). I do arts/crafts (he does not). He has an online community activities (I do not join).

We can do things like hiking, travel, museums together. We share our kids as an interest.

This is us. Now empty nesters and trying to find joint hobbies

I would love to have a shared hobby. But no, no overlap.

We both read (different books). Of course we watch TV (different shows). I exercise (he does not). I do arts/crafts (he does not). He has an online community activities (I do not join).

We can do things like hiking, travel, museums together. We share our kids as an interest.

Nope, zero overlap.

DH is newly into my hobby and it kind of annoys me, although I know I should be happy about it. I liked having my own thing.

Not really!! But we report back on our activities to one another.

Travel and theater.

We haven't watched many movies together since streaming made choice unlimited. There are just too many options and our taste is not similar enough. Also my DH likes to binge watch show series. I can't commit to tens of hours on one show.

We share some hobbies but not all. Its fun to do things together but fine to do things that other person isn't interested in. Just be respectful and accommodating of each other's needs.

Whether it be cooking, sports, music, running. Or do you mostly each do your own thing?