Anonymous wrote:Geeze you all need to unlearn some deeply entrenched biphobia. Bisexual or bi curious people are not any more or less likely to cheat than a straight person. Bi doesn't mean they must be with multiple genders. Everyone is still attracted to people other than their spouse - straight or not. The ability to act or not on that is up to that person, not their sexuality.

I am not afraid of bisexual people. I just don't want to be in a relationship with one. I do not feel our sexual interests would be compatible. I would always wonder if they are really satisfied with our monogamous relationship. I would not want to be put in the position of being asked to do things I am not comfortable with that I think are more likely for a bisexual person to want. I don't think it's *wrong* for them to want those things, I just don't want to be with someone who does.

I also don't want to be with a trans person romantically, even if they've had surgery. But I don't hate trans people, I wish them well. But I am a cisgendered heterosexual person and I want to be with a cisgendered heterosexual person of the opposite sex. That is my sexuality. Asking me to change my sexuality or calling me phobic just because I don't want to change my sexuality is not open minded. It's weird. I don't expect bisexual people to change their sexuality. I just don't want to marry a bisexual person.

Anonymous wrote:Geeze you all need to unlearn some deeply entrenched biphobia. Bisexual or bi curious people are not any more or less likely to cheat than a straight person. Bi doesn't mean they must be with multiple genders. Everyone is still attracted to people other than their spouse - straight or not. The ability to act or not on that is up to that person, not their sexuality.

It's not the same. A bi person is attracted to both sexes, but they are only married to one sex. The partner would never be able to fulfill the bi person's sexual needs.

But, I agree that a hetero person who wants multiple partners should never get married, either.

Not until he explored his bi-curious side.
No. No way.

Geeze you all need to unlearn some deeply entrenched biphobia. Bisexual or bi curious people are not any more or less likely to cheat than a straight person. Bi doesn't mean they must be with multiple genders. Everyone is still attracted to people other than their spouse - straight or not. The ability to act or not on that is up to that person, not their sexuality.

No. Men don't keep to "curious."

Anonymous wrote:That’s fully content with monogamy. Or would you feel it’s too risky? Any stories?

No, too risky for the long run...

He might not feel "fulfilled" later on and he'll want to explore that side of him at some point. Maybe not cheat and actually be upfront.

The homophobia on this thread is already off the charts, and it's still on the first page.

Y'all are ridiculous.

No because I think that bi-curious men are often gay and trying to repress it.

NO

No way

No, to be perfectly honest. I would find it unattractive/offputting, and I would also worry that we simply could not have the same relationship goals.

I also know several people in open marriages (which I have absolutely zero interest in) and in at least two of those situations, the marriage is open because one or both partners is bi and they want more variety. Live and let live, but that's not for me.

Hell no. Marriage is a massive risk for women, and I wouldn't take it with anyone who is not certain they only want to have sex with me for the rest of their life.

I would not

No. I would not.

That’s fully content with monogamy. Or would you feel it’s too risky? Any stories?