Anonymous
Post 08/18/2025 20:49     Subject: Boyfriend dog sitting for ex
He loves the dog!! Normal. He misses the darn dog! Of course he does.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2025 20:47     Subject: Boyfriend dog sitting for ex
How long have you guys been dating? I wouldn’t dump him over it, but I would keep an eye on it. As a new-ish dog owner, I’m more sympathetic to it than I would have been previously.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2025 20:47     Subject: Boyfriend dog sitting for ex
Trickling details, burying the lede… he cheated on a previous girlfriend with a previous-previous girlfriend…

I call troll.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2025 20:45     Subject: Boyfriend dog sitting for ex
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Sorry I shared very few details. he was with her for 5 years they used to live together. I don’t know if the dog was around then. After they ended he had a new relationship and cheated with her once according to him.

Because of this history I just feel uncomfortable about it all.


Yeah. End that relationship. Seems sloppy.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2025 20:44     Subject: Boyfriend dog sitting for ex
OP here. Sorry I shared very few details. he was with her for 5 years they used to live together. I don’t know if the dog was around then. After they ended he had a new relationship and cheated with her once according to him.

Because of this history I just feel uncomfortable about it all.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2025 19:11     Subject: Re:Boyfriend dog sitting for ex
Did she have the dog when they were together? If so, he might just love the dog and want to see it again.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2025 19:10     Subject: Boyfriend dog sitting for ex
Seems like an opening to discuss his relationship with her as an ex. From there you can decide if there’s anything for you to worry about
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2025 19:08     Subject: Boyfriend dog sitting for ex
Is the dog familiar with him? If you don't trust him, explore that.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2025 18:45     Subject: Boyfriend dog sitting for ex
I understand, especially if they lived together and he was attached to the dog.

On the other hand, it could be a yellow flag worth paying attention to how over they really are.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2025 18:44     Subject: Boyfriend dog sitting for ex
This is a you problem.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2025 18:38     Subject: Boyfriend dog sitting for ex
Your boyfriend can do whatever he wants, not only things that you approve or feel comfortable with. If you have a problem with that, break up with him.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2025 18:36     Subject: Boyfriend dog sitting for ex

Ehhh… He probably should have shared it was his ex’s dog.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2025 18:31     Subject: Boyfriend dog sitting for ex
Sounds like your boyfriend is a good guy.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2025 18:28     Subject: Boyfriend dog sitting for ex
Are you concerned he’s going to have sex with the dog?
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2025 18:16     Subject: Boyfriend dog sitting for ex
Today I visited my boyfriend and there was a dog at his house. he says his ex needed dog sitting for the next couple of weeks.

This makes me uncomfortable. How would you approach this?