Anonymous
Post 08/13/2025 14:06     Subject: Re:Did you buy alcohol for your Freshman when you dropped them off?

No all the freshman have fake ID's why would they need me to buy alcohol?
Anonymous
Post 08/13/2025 14:04     Subject: Did you buy alcohol for your Freshman when you dropped them off?

Serving a teenager a glass of wine at Christmas dinner in your home is far different than giving an 18 year old a case of beer when dropping them off at their dorm.
Anonymous
Post 08/13/2025 14:04     Subject: Re:Did you buy alcohol for your Freshman when you dropped them off?

Anonymous wrote:In some states it makes sense to do this, especially if they are attending a private college.

From WebMd https://www.webmd.com/mental-health/addiction/alcohol-laws

t’s not always illegal for people under 21 to drink. In 45 states, laws allow underage drinking in certain situations.

In 29 states, someone under 21 may drink with their parents’ permission if it’s in a private residence or on private property.
Five states allow someone under 21 to drink on private property without their parents’ consent.
Eight states allow underage people to drink with a parent’s consent in public restaurants or bars.
In 26 states, people under 21 may drink alcohol as part of religious services, such as a ceremony in your church.
In 16 states, underage people can drink alcohol if prescribed by a doctor for medical reasons.
In 11 states, you can drink under 21 if it’s for educational reasons, like you’re in cooking school.
In 10 states, there are specific laws prohibiting the hosting of underage drinking parties
Five states allow underage people to drink as part of government work, such as undercover police investigations.



Don’t care.

They want to drink they use their money.

Why in the world would any parent be this dumb?

Yes I know most kids drink I’m not even opposed but I won’t help them get it.
Anonymous
Post 08/13/2025 14:03     Subject: Did you buy alcohol for your Freshman when you dropped them off?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Liars,


Nope. 100% honesty here. Don't pin your, "I am best friend type parenting" bad decision-making on the rest of us.


PP has a point, same parents were supplying in HS and clearly many more than who admit here were doing the same.
Anonymous
Post 08/13/2025 14:03     Subject: Did you buy alcohol for your Freshman when you dropped them off?

Anonymous wrote:If so, what is the reasoning?


Wow parenting fail

What’s wrong with you?

I know my kids drank but I sure as hell am not enabling that.
Anonymous
Post 08/13/2025 14:01     Subject: Re:Did you buy alcohol for your Freshman when you dropped them off?

Anonymous wrote:In some states it makes sense to do this, especially if they are attending a private college.

From WebMd https://www.webmd.com/mental-health/addiction/alcohol-laws

t’s not always illegal for people under 21 to drink. In 45 states, laws allow underage drinking in certain situations.

In 29 states, someone under 21 may drink with their parents’ permission if it’s in a private residence or on private property.
Five states allow someone under 21 to drink on private property without their parents’ consent.
Eight states allow underage people to drink with a parent’s consent in public restaurants or bars.
In 26 states, people under 21 may drink alcohol as part of religious services, such as a ceremony in your church.
In 16 states, underage people can drink alcohol if prescribed by a doctor for medical reasons.
In 11 states, you can drink under 21 if it’s for educational reasons, like you’re in cooking school.
In 10 states, there are specific laws prohibiting the hosting of underage drinking parties
Five states allow underage people to drink as part of government work, such as undercover police investigations.



Reach much?
Anonymous
Post 08/13/2025 14:01     Subject: Did you buy alcohol for your Freshman when you dropped them off?

Anonymous wrote:Liars,


Nope. 100% honesty here. Don't pin your, "I am best friend type parenting" bad decision-making on the rest of us.
Anonymous
Post 08/13/2025 14:00     Subject: Re:Did you buy alcohol for your Freshman when you dropped them off?

In some states it makes sense to do this, especially if they are attending a private college.

From WebMd https://www.webmd.com/mental-health/addiction/alcohol-laws

t’s not always illegal for people under 21 to drink. In 45 states, laws allow underage drinking in certain situations.

In 29 states, someone under 21 may drink with their parents’ permission if it’s in a private residence or on private property.
Five states allow someone under 21 to drink on private property without their parents’ consent.
Eight states allow underage people to drink with a parent’s consent in public restaurants or bars.
In 26 states, people under 21 may drink alcohol as part of religious services, such as a ceremony in your church.
In 16 states, underage people can drink alcohol if prescribed by a doctor for medical reasons.
In 11 states, you can drink under 21 if it’s for educational reasons, like you’re in cooking school.
In 10 states, there are specific laws prohibiting the hosting of underage drinking parties
Five states allow underage people to drink as part of government work, such as undercover police investigations.

Anonymous
Post 08/13/2025 13:56     Subject: Did you buy alcohol for your Freshman when you dropped them off?

Liars,
Anonymous
Post 08/13/2025 13:54     Subject: Did you buy alcohol for your Freshman when you dropped them off?

No. That never would have entered my head to do so and my kids would have been appalled.

I don’t know anyone doing this. Wasn’t a MD senator in trouble for buying his kid booze?
Anonymous
Post 08/13/2025 13:49     Subject: Did you buy alcohol for your Freshman when you dropped them off?

No. Many reasons. First, it's illegal.

Beyond that, this is not the 80's where everyone looks the other way (yes, my and friends' parents bought booze for our graduation parties at their homes). Off the top of my head, you could be liable criminally if your kid let's other drink your purchased booze at school. What if someone drinks, drives, and kills someone, and you provided the alcohol? Further, you could cause the dorm contract to be invalidated, based on the rules in the housing contract you agreed to if it's found in the dorm.
Anonymous
Post 08/13/2025 13:47     Subject: Did you buy alcohol for your Freshman when you dropped them off?

Wtf?
Anonymous
Post 08/13/2025 13:47     Subject: Did you buy alcohol for your Freshman when you dropped them off?

huh? wtf. Hell no!
Anonymous
Post 08/13/2025 13:46     Subject: Did you buy alcohol for your Freshman when you dropped them off?

No. What a weird question. I don’t know anyone that would do this.
Anonymous
Post 08/13/2025 13:45     Subject: Did you buy alcohol for your Freshman when you dropped them off?

If so, what is the reasoning?