Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OH. MY. GOD.
If you need to find a test center, your child doesn't belong in AAP.
Yet so many kids do test prep, just as so many kids get extra coaching for athletics. Just be quiet and let people choose the right support for their kids.
To be fair, I roll my eyes at the kids with private coaches in ES for any sport. I roll my eyes at most travel programs, especially the parents who are willing to pay what they do for their kid to be on the B or C team for 8-year-old soccer/baseball/basketball.
I understand enrichment and additional sports for a kid who loves it and is asking for it, that would include the kid on B and C team for travel. That is supporting a kids interest. Test prep in second grade, AoPS or RSM or Kumon for a kid not interested in math to make sure they take Algebra 1 in 7th grade or forcing a kid to play a travel sport when they are not interested makes little sense to me. I do keep my opinion to myself, it is not my place, but they both cause me to internally roll my eyes.
Kids who are especially gifted at a sport, academic area, instrument, or art are rare and pretty easily spotted. Most the kids prepping for the test for AAP or working with a private coach are not going to find their way into an Ivy or with a D1 scholarship. Let the kid follow their interest, expose them to different options, support them at home. But that is what we do.
And yes, we know the really smart kids in AAP and who are ahead in math. We know kids playing travel sports who love it, they eat it up. We also know kids who are in over their heads and are struggling and are not happy. They are in the accelerated math classes because they want to keep up with the other kids, but they are working their butts off for a B- while the other kids are getting A's with little effort. But their parents won't let them drop down because then their kid isn't in accelerated math. Or the kid is riding the bench on travel sport and not having fun but the parents won't let them move to rec sport because the coaching isn't as good. It's kind of stupid.