Anonymous
Post 08/08/2025 12:36     Subject: Why do women focus on men and their dating issues? Why do women care?
Why shouldn’t we? Men are 50% of the population. An issue with 50% of the population is kind of a big deal.

If women didn’t care I’m sure men would complain about that too.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2025 12:13     Subject: Why do women focus on men and their dating issues? Why do women care?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:They do because they are struggling to find quality men. When women want something they are on a mission. So it's to their benefits that men don't give up on dating. Women aren't going to admit it, but the vast majority are compromising big time on the person they are currently dating. When 10 women have at most 5 quality guys to pick from clearly most will end up with their options #3 or #4. This is why you see all these threads that have common themes about their bfs/fiancees/husbands


If the women were higher quality themselves, they wouldn't be struggling to find a man. Some of us had no problems finding one


I don't think you get it. It is not hard to find a man. The quality is the issue.


I don't think you get it. You can have a high quality man if you are willing to give him what he wants. He doesn't care about your corporate career. That doesn't make you high quality to him. He already has a good career and makes plenty of money so your career adds absolutely nothing to his happiness. Stop trying to tell men what they should value in a woman, it's their decision - not yours.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2025 12:12     Subject: Why do women focus on men and their dating issues? Why do women care?
Women look for love not look. Women are the ones who work on their appearance and presentation. Please don't attack me, this is just how I put society operates.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2025 12:10     Subject: Why do women focus on men and their dating issues? Why do women care?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:They do because they are struggling to find quality men. When women want something they are on a mission. So it's to their benefits that men don't give up on dating. Women aren't going to admit it, but the vast majority are compromising big time on the person they are currently dating. When 10 women have at most 5 quality guys to pick from clearly most will end up with their options #3 or #4. This is why you see all these threads that have common themes about their bfs/fiancees/husbands


I think it's true but it's also triggering for women because nobody wants to admit to themselves that the person they are with was last resort.

When I see all these guys that I personally know with incredible women it don't think these guys realize they have won the lottery. We are taking about sloppy men dorky lazy not particularly attractive, yet they somehow end up with these high value women.


Define what an incredible woman is?
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2025 12:08     Subject: Why do women focus on men and their dating issues? Why do women care?
Anonymous wrote:They do because they are struggling to find quality men. When women want something they are on a mission. So it's to their benefits that men don't give up on dating. Women aren't going to admit it, but the vast majority are compromising big time on the person they are currently dating. When 10 women have at most 5 quality guys to pick from clearly most will end up with their options #3 or #4. This is why you see all these threads that have common themes about their bfs/fiancees/husbands


I think it's true but it's also triggering for women because nobody wants to admit to themselves that the person they are with was last resort.

When I see all these guys that I personally know with incredible women it don't think these guys realize they have won the lottery. We are taking about sloppy men dorky lazy not particularly attractive, yet they somehow end up with these high value women.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2025 12:02     Subject: Why do women focus on men and their dating issues? Why do women care?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:They do because they are struggling to find quality men. When women want something they are on a mission. So it's to their benefits that men don't give up on dating. Women aren't going to admit it, but the vast majority are compromising big time on the person they are currently dating. When 10 women have at most 5 quality guys to pick from clearly most will end up with their options #3 or #4. This is why you see all these threads that have common themes about their bfs/fiancees/husbands


If the women were higher quality themselves, they wouldn't be struggling to find a man. Some of us had no problems finding one


I don't think you get it. It is not hard to find a man. The quality is the issue.


I know. I found one easily. Men want peace and happiness. Give it to them and you can take your pick!
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2025 12:01     Subject: Why do women focus on men and their dating issues? Why do women care?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:They do because they are struggling to find quality men. When women want something they are on a mission. So it's to their benefits that men don't give up on dating. Women aren't going to admit it, but the vast majority are compromising big time on the person they are currently dating. When 10 women have at most 5 quality guys to pick from clearly most will end up with their options #3 or #4. This is why you see all these threads that have common themes about their bfs/fiancees/husbands


If the women were higher quality themselves, they wouldn't be struggling to find a man. Some of us had no problems finding one


I don't think you get it. It is not hard to find a man. The quality is the issue.


This. I know a ton of quality women who found men who have been less than great long term. I somehow lucked out with DH, personality and partnership wise. But he's not tall and bald and clearly overlooked by some.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2025 12:01     Subject: Why do women focus on men and their dating issues? Why do women care?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:They do because they are struggling to find quality men. When women want something they are on a mission. So it's to their benefits that men don't give up on dating. Women aren't going to admit it, but the vast majority are compromising big time on the person they are currently dating. When 10 women have at most 5 quality guys to pick from clearly most will end up with their options #3 or #4. This is why you see all these threads that have common themes about their bfs/fiancees/husbands


If the women were higher quality themselves, they wouldn't be struggling to find a man. Some of us had no problems finding one


This! Many high quality men do not want women that have taken on masculine characteristics pushed by angry feminism. They also find what women are currently doing to their bodies is gross. Botox, duck lips, fillers, ass implants. Women don't even look like women anymore.
These women act like when looking for a man, they are shopping on the clearance rack but they fail to understand that they are also on the clearance rack.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2025 11:57     Subject: Why do women focus on men and their dating issues? Why do women care?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:They do because they are struggling to find quality men. When women want something they are on a mission. So it's to their benefits that men don't give up on dating. Women aren't going to admit it, but the vast majority are compromising big time on the person they are currently dating. When 10 women have at most 5 quality guys to pick from clearly most will end up with their options #3 or #4. This is why you see all these threads that have common themes about their bfs/fiancees/husbands


If the women were higher quality themselves, they wouldn't be struggling to find a man. Some of us had no problems finding one


I don't think you get it. It is not hard to find a man. The quality is the issue.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2025 11:54     Subject: Why do women focus on men and their dating issues? Why do women care?
Anonymous wrote:They do because they are struggling to find quality men. When women want something they are on a mission. So it's to their benefits that men don't give up on dating. Women aren't going to admit it, but the vast majority are compromising big time on the person they are currently dating. When 10 women have at most 5 quality guys to pick from clearly most will end up with their options #3 or #4. This is why you see all these threads that have common themes about their bfs/fiancees/husbands


If the women were higher quality themselves, they wouldn't be struggling to find a man. Some of us had no problems finding one
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2025 11:53     Subject: Re:Why do women focus on men and their dating issues? Why do women care?
They like drama
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2025 11:52     Subject: Why do women focus on men and their dating issues? Why do women care?
They do because they are struggling to find quality men. When women want something they are on a mission. So it's to their benefits that men don't give up on dating. Women aren't going to admit it, but the vast majority are compromising big time on the person they are currently dating. When 10 women have at most 5 quality guys to pick from clearly most will end up with their options #3 or #4. This is why you see all these threads that have common themes about their bfs/fiancees/husbands
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2025 11:50     Subject: Why do women focus on men and their dating issues? Why do women care?
Just below this thread is a thread that is the NYT Times article and "What is Wrong with Men?'.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1284120.page

Perhaps a little confirmation bias?
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2025 11:44     Subject: Why do women focus on men and their dating issues? Why do women care?
Consider that you may be hyperfocusing on these issues. I subscribe to the NYT and the WaPo, read them daily, and somehow miss all those things. When you look for something, you're bound to find it, OP.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2025 11:42     Subject: Why do women focus on men and their dating issues? Why do women care?
Why do women focus on men and their dating issues? Why do women care? I'm seeing these articles in NY times WPost and it always boils down to men's struggles in the dating market. Why do women care especially since they are not the issue? I don't get it