Anonymous
Post 07/25/2025 23:37     Subject: Sharing interpersonal conflicts with colleagues

Anonymous wrote:If you have interpersonal conflicts with colleagues, do you ever share those with people you work with, or people who are senior to you? I work in a place where my manager and other senior people I interact with what to know those things to try to address them and keep harmony among the team. I don’t want to discuss these things because I’m afraid it will make me look bad. Any advice? I’ve got one on ones coming up soon.


Don't share. IME the info will only be used against you.
Anonymous
Post 07/25/2025 22:35     Subject: Sharing interpersonal conflicts with colleagues

We need more details. But I’d err on the side of bringing things up in a more neutral way, like the problem is the process in place or something. I wouldn’t whine or rat people out.
Anonymous
Post 07/25/2025 22:19     Subject: Sharing interpersonal conflicts with colleagues

Totally depends on the nature of the conflict.
Anonymous
Post 07/25/2025 21:20     Subject: Sharing interpersonal conflicts with colleagues

If you have interpersonal conflicts with colleagues, do you ever share those with people you work with, or people who are senior to you? I work in a place where my manager and other senior people I interact with what to know those things to try to address them and keep harmony among the team. I don’t want to discuss these things because I’m afraid it will make me look bad. Any advice? I’ve got one on ones coming up soon.