Crossposting response from Peri/menopause forum:
Are you also taking progesterone? You need it if you are taking HRT and have an uterus (i.e., no hysterectomy).
Some resources to get you started in advocating for yourself:
https://kellycaspersonmd.com/top-menopause-hormone-myths-busted/
https://thepauselife.com/pages/the-new-perimenopause-book
https://peterattiamd.com/rachelrubin/