Anonymous wrote:Probably been a thread here before on this but I cant find any. I am 56 years old and married for 22 years.
Our marriage has gone through many ups and downs, been troubled in recent years, gone though with responsibilities with both sets of parents.
We are trying to give it a stronger try … me more than him.
How do I spark this marriage in every way? Our s- - life is very dim too.
I do see him being vibrant with few other female friends . He enjoys that attention.
I want to put the sparkle and flirtation back … need ideas and inputs - Thanks.
Do you take a long time to have an orgasm? Sometimes it becomes work and i would rather sleep. If she was able to get herself off, it would make things easier.