Anonymous wrote:I would take that time to think about how I got here in my life and do I want to live like this?

This. Suspicious minds are toxic.

I would take that time to think about how I got here in my life and do I want to live like this?

Look if he’s on Reddits or Discord.

What's your plan if you confirm the cheating? Just skip to that step.

Google search history

"How to hide cheating on your wife"
"How do stds work"
"My wife got fat"

You have to actually look through their texts because most cheaters will save their AP as a diff name. So you can't just scroll by their best friend "Joe" and assume that's actually messages with Joe

Deleted pics/texts
Any messaging apps that aren't text
Google maps keeps a history for years. If you have any specific past dates you were suspicious of or what to to see where they frequently go, you can easily.
The usage will tell you the breakdown of which apps they spend the most time on
The app store tells you if there's any apps they download and delete (look for dating apps, messaging apps, etc)

Yours truly,
Happily divorced from a gaslighting cheater

My ex communicated his girlfriend thru game apps like Ruzzle and words with friends

Look through their contacts.

lol stop dicking around and just get a divorce.

Deleted messages.

Apps you've never heard of that could be masking other apps.

WhatsApp locked chats.

If you have unfettered access to your spouse's phone for 30 minutes and you suspect they are cheating, what do you look for besides the obvious texts, hidden picture file and burner email accounts?