Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 09:56     Subject: Wedding attire says “dress comfortably”

Linen or seersucker.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 09:35     Subject: Wedding attire says “dress comfortably”

That is really odd. What are they doing? Hiking to the wedding spot?
I’d wear wedding appropriate clothing determined by time of day. I’m not going to lower my standards.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 09:30     Subject: Wedding attire says “dress comfortably”

The stated dress code makes me deeply uncomfortable. Sending my regrets!
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 09:22     Subject: Wedding attire says “dress comfortably”

Anonymous wrote:No, no jeans. No matter how “comfortable” they are. It’s a wedding, not a Saturday morning farmer’s market.


For men, jeans are comfortable. Men still can't wear shorts.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 09:17     Subject: Wedding attire says “dress comfortably”

What is the venue and location? Like if it's on a farm, don't wear heels that will sink into the ground. If it's in the mountains, bring a sweater. That sort of thing.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 09:14     Subject: Re:Wedding attire says “dress comfortably”

Where is the wedding? Is it on a beach in the summer in a high humidity area? One of the trendy farm settings? Location would drive the definition of comfortable in my mind.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 09:08     Subject: Wedding attire says “dress comfortably”

What is the time, location (state) and, most importantly, venue, OP?

Those details will help us advise.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 08:56     Subject: Wedding attire says “dress comfortably”

lol I would send in my regrets.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 08:22     Subject: Re:Wedding attire says “dress comfortably”

Anonymous wrote:Is this code for there is no AC in Aug?


I was wondering the same thing - are they telling you the wedding site might be a little uncomfortable?
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 08:21     Subject: Wedding attire says “dress comfortably”

No, no jeans. No matter how “comfortable” they are. It’s a wedding, not a Saturday morning farmer’s market.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 08:11     Subject: Wedding attire says “dress comfortably”

I’d wear a casual maybe jersey knit knee length dress, maybe a simple sundress knee length or midi, something like that. Flats or heeled sandals. Not pumps of any kind.

Men will probably wear jeans and an untucked shirt or polo, or chinos of some kind. Comfy shoes some will probably wear clean sneakers. Like going to dinner in any city.

That’s what I’d think of as casual but appropriate for a wedding. But with that language I bet someone shows up in a hoodie or lulu or a t shirt.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 08:10     Subject: Re:Wedding attire says “dress comfortably”

Is this code for there is no AC in Aug?
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 08:01     Subject: Wedding attire says “dress comfortably”

I'd think men would wear jeans and a button down. Women in cotton sundresses. Like what you'd wear to a bridal shower normally.

Their wording is terrible btw.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 07:59     Subject: Wedding attire says “dress comfortably”

I’d wear a sundress and sandal heels. It’s still a wedding but would look appropriate even if people come in jeans
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2025 07:51     Subject: Wedding attire says “dress comfortably”

What do you wear? Or not wear?