Friend and I had sex with a woman at the same time, we didn’t touch each other except for brushing arms or legs. It was 20 years ago and was the closest I ever go to bi, still top 5 in the spank bank.

No, and if he did it would be bye bye.

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Anonymous wrote:Ex husband, who I had regular sex with, told me he fantasized about being with men. As openminded as I am (lots of friends who are gay/lesbian) this was a big surprise. We had been together for over 10 years, unhappily on my end.

I assume he was/is bi. Wondering how common this is amongst “straight” men.

Seems I read around 10% have fantasized about it in most surveys, and around 5% experimented. Around 1-2% genuinely gay.

Variety of surveys through time put the number of gay men around 5%, though of course probably higher in large cities. If you are asking about how many men have fantasized? 1 in 5 or 20%. How many men have gone through and explored? 15% seems a reasonable estimate.

How do I know? I am a bisexual man who is more into guys and the stereotypical "you would never guess" person. There are way more married down low guys than most would think.

Barack Obama did so 🤷🏼‍♀️

He wrote about it to letters to his ex-gf from his Oberlin days.

No. Never. We are very open and talk about everything without judgment.

Anonymous wrote:Only beating the crap out of other men.

A lot of “straight” men are on the down low. An actual straight man doesn’t fantasize about other men - that’s not how it works.

Anonymous wrote:He is bisexual. And PP, your boyfriend wasn't gay. He was also bisexual.

Or gay and in denial. that happens too.

Only beating the crap out of other men.

Anonymous wrote:Ex husband, who I had regular sex with, told me he fantasized about being with men. As openminded as I am (lots of friends who are gay/lesbian) this was a big surprise. We had been together for over 10 years, unhappily on my end.

I assume he was/is bi. Wondering how common this is amongst “straight” men.

Seems I read around 10% have fantasized about it in most surveys, and around 5% experimented. Around 1-2% genuinely gay.

Never.

He is bisexual. And PP, your boyfriend wasn't gay. He was also bisexual.

Ex casual bf. He had already slept with a man but swore he wasn't gay. His nightstand told me otherwise.

No . Never.

Ex husband, who I had regular sex with, told me he fantasized about being with men. As openminded as I am (lots of friends who are gay/lesbian) this was a big surprise. We had been together for over 10 years, unhappily on my end.

I assume he was/is bi. Wondering how common this is amongst “straight” men.