Anonymous
Post 07/03/2025 15:47     Subject: Pregnancy scares

This has to be a troll.
Anonymous
Post 07/03/2025 15:42     Subject: Pregnancy scares

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Just get a vasectomy. Best money I ever spent.


This. I hate condoms and struggled to find a birth control that didn't have some kind of negative side effect. DH happily got a vasectomy and it's been the best thing.

That's exactly it I hate condoms she stopped her pill because of the hormones and we used the pullout method. I have not looked into a vasectomy though. Family and friends want sex off the table until we can show responsible behaviors.

What???? Why are your family and friends this invested in your sex life?
Anonymous
Post 07/03/2025 15:41     Subject: Pregnancy scares

Gosh if only there were ways to prevent this from happening.
Anonymous
Post 07/03/2025 14:04     Subject: Pregnancy scares

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't understand this. The concept is pretty simple: Use birth control if you don't want anymore kids. Don't use birth control if you want more kids.

Why is this hard?

This is what everyone said to us it shouldn't be this hard.


How old are you? Adults learn self control and self regulation. It's time to grow up.


I am 25 she is 26 your right we should have self control. It's not just with sex it's everything spending savings following a budget. We know we should use protection but instead it's I will just pullout or she will say I'm not ovulating and we just have sex.
Anonymous
Post 07/03/2025 13:52     Subject: Pregnancy scares

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't understand this. The concept is pretty simple: Use birth control if you don't want anymore kids. Don't use birth control if you want more kids.

Why is this hard?

This is what everyone said to us it shouldn't be this hard.


How old are you? Adults learn self control and self regulation. It's time to grow up.
Anonymous
Post 07/03/2025 13:26     Subject: Pregnancy scares

Anonymous wrote:I don't understand this. The concept is pretty simple: Use birth control if you don't want anymore kids. Don't use birth control if you want more kids.

Why is this hard?

This is what everyone said to us it shouldn't be this hard.
Anonymous
Post 07/03/2025 12:43     Subject: Pregnancy scares

I don't understand this. The concept is pretty simple: Use birth control if you don't want anymore kids. Don't use birth control if you want more kids.

Why is this hard?
Anonymous
Post 07/03/2025 12:43     Subject: Pregnancy scares

Anonymous wrote:Just get a vasectomy. Best money I ever spent.

This.
Ain't nothing to it. One weekend of tender balls and it's over.
Anonymous
Post 07/03/2025 12:15     Subject: Pregnancy scares

Vasectomy and condoms until sure swimmers have cleared.
Then do it like rabbits.
Anonymous
Post 07/03/2025 09:35     Subject: Pregnancy scares

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Just get a vasectomy. Best money I ever spent.


This. I hate condoms and struggled to find a birth control that didn't have some kind of negative side effect. DH happily got a vasectomy and it's been the best thing.

That's exactly it I hate condoms she stopped her pill because of the hormones and we used the pullout method. I have not looked into a vasectomy though. Family and friends want sex off the table until we can show responsible behaviors.
Anonymous
Post 07/03/2025 09:33     Subject: Pregnancy scares

Anonymous wrote:Just get a vasectomy. Best money I ever spent.


This. I hate condoms and struggled to find a birth control that didn't have some kind of negative side effect. DH happily got a vasectomy and it's been the best thing.
Anonymous
Post 07/03/2025 09:25     Subject: Pregnancy scares

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you want more kids.

No we don't and I know that sounds like a wrong answer but we don't.
Anonymous
Post 07/03/2025 09:22     Subject: Pregnancy scares

Sounds like you want more kids.
Anonymous
Post 07/03/2025 09:05     Subject: Pregnancy scares

Just get a vasectomy. Best money I ever spent.
Anonymous
Post 07/03/2025 08:48     Subject: Pregnancy scares

If we never learn or act mature should we take advice and abstain from sex? We have 3 kids all not planned and continue the same behaviors with sex and birth control.