Anonymous
Post 06/26/2025 18:46     Subject: How to maintain required contact with manipulative ex-wife
Anonymous wrote:I've heard of apps for co-parenting that document all the communications between the divorced people, but would that work for people without kids? Please share any links to these if you have them. Having her contact his lawyer won't work because she'll run up a huge legal bill for him by calling them every week. He just needs something that puts her on alert that their lawyers and the judge will be able to see all of their communications, which would hopefully inhibit her from harassing him. Ideally, this would be something he could check weekly or monthly so that he isn't forced to endure her random nasty grams or "poor me" diatribes at all hours of the day and night.





Ask “his” lawyer.


Anonymous
Post 06/26/2025 18:45     Subject: How to maintain required contact with manipulative ex-wife
Anonymous wrote:I've heard of apps for co-parenting that document all the communications between the divorced people, but would that work for people without kids? Please share any links to these if you have them. Having her contact his lawyer won't work because she'll run up a huge legal bill for him by calling them every week. He just needs something that puts her on alert that their lawyers and the judge will be able to see all of their communications, which would hopefully inhibit her from harassing him. Ideally, this would be something he could check weekly or monthly so that he isn't forced to endure her random nasty grams or "poor me" diatribes at all hours of the day and night.



No kids.

wtf

Are you his new girlfriend or his elderly mother?
Anonymous
Post 06/26/2025 18:43     Subject: Re:How to maintain required contact with manipulative ex-wife
They divorced after years of BS by DW, during which time she would take off for months/years at a time without explanation. The distance never stopped her from charging up a storm on the credit cards and expecting him to pay them off since she never had a job while married. We've always assumed she was with other guys when she'd disappear for so long, but he never demanded that she recount her whereabouts when she'd show back up. Men can be really stupid sometimes. None of us can stand her. Sorry to burst your bubble, but women can be just as bad as men when it comes to taking advantage of others.


Anonymous
Post 06/26/2025 18:31     Subject: How to maintain required contact with manipulative ex-wife

Why is there "required" contact with an ex-wife if there are no kids?

Anonymous
Post 06/26/2025 18:29     Subject: How to maintain required contact with manipulative ex-wife
If there are no kids, he can just block her.

Before blocking her, he can tell her that all the communications are being documented for a potential stalker and harassment lawsuit against her.

Anonymous
Post 06/26/2025 18:27     Subject: How to maintain required contact with manipulative ex-wife
Anonymous wrote:Why do the two need to be in continued contact if things aren't amicable and there are no kids?


+1
Anonymous
Post 06/26/2025 18:19     Subject: How to maintain required contact with manipulative ex-wife
Women are thirsty for revenge. They just can't let it go. If your husband leaves you for another woman just file for divorce and move on. Geez
Anonymous
Post 06/26/2025 18:15     Subject: How to maintain required contact with manipulative ex-wife
If she is his ex, and there are no kids, why do they still need to be in contact? Why is a judge involved?
Anonymous
Post 06/26/2025 18:12     Subject: Re:How to maintain required contact with manipulative ex-wife
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Sounds like "he" deserves it.


Indeed. OP, how old is the girl for whom you left your wife?


70% of marriages are ended by the woman. Just saying. Odds are she left the marriage.


70% of marriages are ended by the woman, or women fill out the paperwork for 70% of divorces? I've only seen statistics that support the latter.

I filed for divorce. My husband ended the marriage when he moved across the country and started living with another woman.
Anonymous
Post 06/26/2025 17:59     Subject: How to maintain required contact with manipulative ex-wife
Are you the new girlfriend? Just break up with him, it isn't worth it. If he needs you to problem-solve this for him because he can't or won't handle it on his own, that tells you something about him. You might think you're "helping" him, but really you're enabling.
Anonymous
Post 06/26/2025 17:35     Subject: How to maintain required contact with manipulative ex-wife
Why do the two need to be in continued contact if things aren't amicable and there are no kids?
Anonymous
Post 06/26/2025 17:33     Subject: Re:How to maintain required contact with manipulative ex-wife
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Sounds like "he" deserves it.


Indeed. OP, how old is the girl for whom you left your wife?


70% of marriages are ended by the woman. Just saying. Odds are she left the marriage.
Anonymous
Post 06/26/2025 17:30     Subject: Re:How to maintain required contact with manipulative ex-wife
Anonymous wrote:Sounds like "he" deserves it.


Indeed. OP, how old is the girl for whom you left your wife?
Anonymous
Post 06/26/2025 17:22     Subject: Re:How to maintain required contact with manipulative ex-wife
Sounds like "he" deserves it.
Anonymous
Post 06/26/2025 17:19     Subject: How to maintain required contact with manipulative ex-wife
I've heard of apps for co-parenting that document all the communications between the divorced people, but would that work for people without kids? Please share any links to these if you have them. Having her contact his lawyer won't work because she'll run up a huge legal bill for him by calling them every week. He just needs something that puts her on alert that their lawyers and the judge will be able to see all of their communications, which would hopefully inhibit her from harassing him. Ideally, this would be something he could check weekly or monthly so that he isn't forced to endure her random nasty grams or "poor me" diatribes at all hours of the day and night.