OP here. I travel all over the world and will eat anywhere there is good food. I'm rarely at a loss for trying to find a decent restaurant, but Raleigh is throwing some curve balls.
I hate defaulting to a steakhouse, but I think that's what I have to do for this trip. Here is a great Reddit thread on Raleigh steakhouses, which includes a review of the Angus Barn someone above recommended. I'm inclined to pass on the Angus Barn because it's 12 miles outside of town, but I could be persuaded if it really is worth the drive.
Other top contenders are Vinnie's, Oak, and Capital Grille.
https://www.reddit.com/r/raleigh/comments/16ilo1a/a_definitive_guide_to_raleigh_steakhouses/