Anonymous
Post 06/23/2025 09:28     Subject: Help me find a purse like the Ralph bag
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you’ve gotten your mind set on a specific bag, it can be very hard to make yourself switch to an alternative that’s less, it’s hard to feel satisfied. Better to save up for what you really want if you think another perfectly nice bag is a big compromise.


Understood. But I’ll never waste $3k+ on a purse (even though I could if I opted to).

I’m just looking for something that is as sturdy/structured as a RL bag—noting the other suggested bags are far less structured/rugged…with the exception of the Le Tanneur bag (which seems more structured but lacks the statement feature of the Ralph bag).

I’ll keep looking.


You want a “statement feature” but you don’t want to pay thousands? The cost is the idea of the statement.
Anonymous
Post 06/23/2025 07:55     Subject: Help me find a purse like the Ralph bag
Anonymous wrote:Demellier?

https://demellierlondon.com/products/the-midi-new-york-tan-small-grain-ecru-stitching?variant=43383719854254


I like this one ALOT more than the original RL one fwiw
Anonymous
Post 06/23/2025 05:58     Subject: Help me find a purse like the Ralph bag
Demellier?

https://demellierlondon.com/products/the-midi-new-york-tan-small-grain-ecru-stitching?variant=43383719854254
Anonymous
Post 06/23/2025 00:20     Subject: Re:Help me find a purse like the Ralph bag
Anonymous wrote:https://shopvestirsi.com/en-us/products/grace-large-east-west-tote-tan

https://www.letanneur.us/products/elena-small-tote-bag-in-grained-leather-mahogany_brown


This LeTanneur is worth a look by OP!
Anonymous
Post 06/22/2025 18:07     Subject: Help me find a purse like the Ralph bag
I'm in love with the Ralph bag too.
Anonymous
Post 06/22/2025 16:16     Subject: Help me find a purse like the Ralph bag
They have the Ralph bag in the window at the RL store in the Galleria mall if you want to see it in person.

https://frejanyc.com/products/caroline-bag-pecan

https://mcys.co/4k8ETc7
Anonymous
Post 06/22/2025 15:52     Subject: Help me find a purse like the Ralph bag
this is a more formal bag but is structured with a little interesting detail

https://www.toryburch.com/en-us/handbags/satchels/lee-radziwill-double-bag/158640.html?utm_source=shopmy&utm_medium=shopmy&utm_campaign=Jen+Shoop&utm_content=Sunday+Pastel.&utm_referrer=magpiebyjenshoop.com&smsclickid=566f9d5d-a0fc-479c-8410-6a75293011b5
Anonymous
Post 06/22/2025 14:06     Subject: Help me find a purse like the Ralph bag
Anonymous wrote:If you’ve gotten your mind set on a specific bag, it can be very hard to make yourself switch to an alternative that’s less, it’s hard to feel satisfied. Better to save up for what you really want if you think another perfectly nice bag is a big compromise.


Understood. But I’ll never waste $3k+ on a purse (even though I could if I opted to).

I’m just looking for something that is as sturdy/structured as a RL bag—noting the other suggested bags are far less structured/rugged…with the exception of the Le Tanneur bag (which seems more structured but lacks the statement feature of the Ralph bag).

I’ll keep looking.
Anonymous
Post 06/22/2025 13:23     Subject: Help me find a purse like the Ralph bag
If you’ve gotten your mind set on a specific bag, it can be very hard to make yourself switch to an alternative that’s less, it’s hard to feel satisfied. Better to save up for what you really want if you think another perfectly nice bag is a big compromise.
Anonymous
Post 06/22/2025 12:52     Subject: Help me find a purse like the Ralph bag
https://www.toryburch.com/en-us/handbags/tote-bags/romy-tote/163388.html?color=251

Comes in a smaller version, too.

OP, of course not an exact match but nothing will be. You have to pick the festures most appealing to you about the RL bag and look for bags that mimic those features.
Anonymous
Post 06/22/2025 09:54     Subject: Re:Help me find a purse like the Ralph bag
https://shopvestirsi.com/en-us/products/grace-large-east-west-tote-tan

https://www.letanneur.us/products/elena-small-tote-bag-in-grained-leather-mahogany_brown
Anonymous
Post 06/22/2025 06:51     Subject: Help me find a purse like the Ralph bag
The 2 alternatives seem less structured and interesting as the RL bag. They also seem more dressy/polished.

Any other suggestions?
Anonymous
Post 06/20/2025 21:38     Subject: Help me find a purse like the Ralph bag
DeMellier is similar

https://demellierlondon.com/products/the-midi-new-york-tan-small-grain-ecru-stitching
Anonymous
Post 06/20/2025 21:29     Subject: Help me find a purse like the Ralph bag
Same shape and color but far less detail: https://eng.polene-paris.com/products/cyme-textured-camel?utm_source=google&campaign_id=21509522373&ad_id=707482422626&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=SHOPPING_STD_US_Marque&utm_content=170637834932&utm_term=&gclid=Cj0KCQjwjdTCBhCLARIsAEu8bpI93tzUPiyER_Xgd_FSqo5yR_kiwf9p6vD-HYVOZYqhB7a5zUchIggaAq4YEALw_wcB&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21509522373&gbraid=0AAAAADP65sw-Qtx5ThVTsLNMQW-7njfvn
Anonymous
Post 06/20/2025 21:02     Subject: Help me find a purse like the Ralph bag
https://www.bergdorfgoodman.com/p/ralph-lauren-collection-the-ralph-calfskin-tote-bag-prod192370005?utm_source=google_shopping&ecid=BGCS_GP_CV_HA_PR_NONE&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=12442473775&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI2fKUgKiBjgMVn2dHAR3k-grHEAQYBSABEgKAWfD_BwE

Love the look and vibe, but I don’t spend thousands on purses.

Can you help me find something along the lines of this cute bag?