Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't think it is a wise idea.
Why on earth not? I cannot imagine why it is a problem? I know who all the parties are, all the relatives, on both sides, as well, and they all know about me. All bio and adoptive parents are dead. There's nothing I don't know about anyone, and vice versa, as I’ve done DNA. No one should be without this knowledge.
So, you think it's not a good idea for me to know:
My actual birthday?
The time and place of my birth?
What was written on my birth record?
Why do you get to know that and not me? I am not a rescue mutt, who, BTW, comes with a lot more information than I actually have.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't think it is a wise idea.
Why on earth not? I cannot imagine why it is a problem? I know who all the parties are, all the relatives, on both sides, as well, and they all know about me. All bio and adoptive parents are dead. There's nothing I don't know about anyone, and vice versa, as I’ve done DNA. No one should be without this knowledge.
So, you think it's not a good idea for me to know:
My actual birthday?
The time and place of my birth?
What was written on my birth record?
Why do you get to know that and not me? I am not a rescue mutt, who, BTW, comes with a lot more information than I actually have.
You certainly sound like a rescue mutt if you don’t even know what day you were born.
Yes, millions of adoptees don't have their birth information. And yes, dogs come with more information.
Rescue mutts don't come with any of the information listed. Where would you get it?
DNA.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't think it is a wise idea.
Why on earth not? I cannot imagine why it is a problem? I know who all the parties are, all the relatives, on both sides, as well, and they all know about me. All bio and adoptive parents are dead. There's nothing I don't know about anyone, and vice versa, as I’ve done DNA. No one should be without this knowledge.
So, you think it's not a good idea for me to know:
My actual birthday?
The time and place of my birth?
What was written on my birth record?
Why do you get to know that and not me? I am not a rescue mutt, who, BTW, comes with a lot more information than I actually have.
Was your original bc changed? Why do you think your birthday and stuff was changed. My child's all stayed the same and the only thing that changed was the parents names (and we have originals before it was changed).
Because many children were literally brokered by third parties. Millions of adoptees had this happen.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't think it is a wise idea.
Why on earth not? I cannot imagine why it is a problem? I know who all the parties are, all the relatives, on both sides, as well, and they all know about me. All bio and adoptive parents are dead. There's nothing I don't know about anyone, and vice versa, as I’ve done DNA. No one should be without this knowledge.
So, you think it's not a good idea for me to know:
My actual birthday?
The time and place of my birth?
What was written on my birth record?
Why do you get to know that and not me? I am not a rescue mutt, who, BTW, comes with a lot more information than I actually have.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't think it is a wise idea.
Why on earth not? I cannot imagine why it is a problem? I know who all the parties are, all the relatives, on both sides, as well, and they all know about me. All bio and adoptive parents are dead. There's nothing I don't know about anyone, and vice versa, as I’ve done DNA. No one should be without this knowledge.
So, you think it's not a good idea for me to know:
My actual birthday?
The time and place of my birth?
What was written on my birth record?
Why do you get to know that and not me? I am not a rescue mutt, who, BTW, comes with a lot more information than I actually have.
Was your original bc changed? Why do you think your birthday and stuff was changed. My child's all stayed the same and the only thing that changed was the parents names (and we have originals before it was changed).
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't think it is a wise idea.
Why on earth not? I cannot imagine why it is a problem? I know who all the parties are, all the relatives, on both sides, as well, and they all know about me. All bio and adoptive parents are dead. There's nothing I don't know about anyone, and vice versa, as I’ve done DNA. No one should be without this knowledge.
So, you think it's not a good idea for me to know:
My actual birthday?
The time and place of my birth?
What was written on my birth record?
Why do you get to know that and not me? I am not a rescue mutt, who, BTW, comes with a lot more information than I actually have.
Anonymous wrote:Was your adoption handled by an agency? If you already know the identities of everyone, you can get the non-identifying info that is contained in your adoption file from the original agency involved in your adoption. Adoption records can vary wildly in the amount of information contained in them, but often have the information you mentioned (time/place of birth, hospital records, etc). You don't need to involve the court to get that type of info from the agency.
Anonymous wrote:Most states unsealed them years ago.
Anonymous wrote:I don't think it is a wise idea.