56 year old woman here, and I don't want or need any more stuff. After moving 2 sets of parents into AL in the oast year, it's eye opening: you really can't take it with you. I otherwords, purge while you can. And stop buying stuff

Anonymous wrote:Take her away for a weekend, just the two of you.

For $400?! That'd be a really crappy getaway!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Polo Ralph Lauren
Polo Play Canvas Tote Bag https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/prod280070108

https://www.davidyurman.com/womens/bracelets/dy-madison-chain-bracelet-in-sterling-silver-8.5mm-B13779+SS.html?dwvar_B13779%20SS_color=ZZ

https://us.louisvuitton.com/eng-us/products/kirigami-card-holder-monogram-nvprod5890023v/M12793?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=LV_FLG_USA_ALWON_UNI_ACC_OnGoing_EC_SHOP_GSHO_MUL_ENG_USD_NAPP_BRAN_PLA_LITTLELUXURIES&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21161707161&gbraid=0AAAAADs-5Bv5eWkwotoVXpqUD9ndBiijj&gclid=CjwKCAjwo4rCBhAbEiwAxhJlCWV7PVY_OiS2Q1jZZIOMAtOS4YxbDzZLUBZPXivrapT8KV7g4w6iNRoCKHAQAvD_BwE

Not OP, but I really like that tote.

It comes in a smaller size that is less $$ too. https://www.bloomingdales.com/shop/product/polo-ralph-lauren-polo-play-canvas-tote?ID=5536672&pla_country=US&gclsrc=aw.ds&&cm_mmc=Google-PLA-ADC-_-S21+High+Opportunity+Brands-_-Polo+Ralph+Lauren-_-888188565258USA-_-go_cmp-12731782004_adg-124409716201_ad-513824168560_pla-305574866115_dev-m_ext-_prd-888188565258USA&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=12731782004&gbraid=0AAAAAD0PCJSxcYDR8urazgk0_CDMOI0AU&gclid=CjwKCAjwo4rCBhAbEiwAxhJlCUth1GKy0EqbIDsiHDlnwvN2BBa5zoqr9BtI9wikOWZS_Qi5HaPXnhoCbeAQAvD_BwE

Anonymous wrote:As a similar demographic woman, I’d be happy to help my sister and it would ne so awkward if she gave me a gift!

Same. Agreed

Babaa sweater

Anonymous wrote:Polo Ralph Lauren
Polo Play Canvas Tote Bag https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/prod280070108

https://www.davidyurman.com/womens/bracelets/dy-madison-chain-bracelet-in-sterling-silver-8.5mm-B13779+SS.html?dwvar_B13779%20SS_color=ZZ

https://us.louisvuitton.com/eng-us/products/kirigami-card-holder-monogram-nvprod5890023v/M12793?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=LV_FLG_USA_ALWON_UNI_ACC_OnGoing_EC_SHOP_GSHO_MUL_ENG_USD_NAPP_BRAN_PLA_LITTLELUXURIES&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21161707161&gbraid=0AAAAADs-5Bv5eWkwotoVXpqUD9ndBiijj&gclid=CjwKCAjwo4rCBhAbEiwAxhJlCWV7PVY_OiS2Q1jZZIOMAtOS4YxbDzZLUBZPXivrapT8KV7g4w6iNRoCKHAQAvD_BwE

Not OP, but I really like that tote.

Take her out to a nice dinner just the two of you. Like the new Jose Andre’s place.

Or is there something you think she’d want but feel like too much of a splurge? Ll beam wicked good slippers? Real silk pajamas? A really nice coffee grinder? These are things I would like.

Polo Ralph Lauren
Polo Play Canvas Tote Bag https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/prod280070108

https://www.davidyurman.com/womens/bracelets/dy-madison-chain-bracelet-in-sterling-silver-8.5mm-B13779+SS.html?dwvar_B13779%20SS_color=ZZ

https://us.louisvuitton.com/eng-us/products/kirigami-card-holder-monogram-nvprod5890023v/M12793?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=LV_FLG_USA_ALWON_UNI_ACC_OnGoing_EC_SHOP_GSHO_MUL_ENG_USD_NAPP_BRAN_PLA_LITTLELUXURIES&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21161707161&gbraid=0AAAAADs-5Bv5eWkwotoVXpqUD9ndBiijj&gclid=CjwKCAjwo4rCBhAbEiwAxhJlCWV7PVY_OiS2Q1jZZIOMAtOS4YxbDzZLUBZPXivrapT8KV7g4w6iNRoCKHAQAvD_BwE

Anonymous wrote:Take her away for a weekend, just the two of you.

That tends to cost more than $400.

Another similar demographic woman here- I’d like a weekend away with her. We’ve never done that and I think we’d actually enjoy it now. It could be a single night or even a day and I wouldn’t even want her to pay the entire bill. The time together is nice. I really don’t want more stuff. I also don’t want our husbands and kids there, or our parents!

As a similar demographic woman, I’d be happy to help my sister and it would ne so awkward if she gave me a gift!

Spa gift certificate

Take her away for a weekend, just the two of you.

Hobbies? Style? Anything to go on?

I’m looking for a good gift idea for my sister who really stepped up recently to help with some family stuff. Budget is $400. She’s pretty typical mid-50s upper middle class. Any ideas for jewelry or other popular personal or house stuff? She’s much more into trends than I am and I’m feeling a bit lost.