Anonymous
05/19/2025 21:23
Subject: How do you meet a guy in your late thirties?
Total 36% American men have college degree and less than 10% have a grad or professional degree. What percentage from them are straight, marriage minded, single, employed and in driving distance to you?
Anonymous
05/19/2025 21:20
Subject: How do you meet a guy in your late thirties?
Anonymous wrote:Professional and marriage minded.
I am clueless. Please help!
What percentage of American men in 30's are marriage minded single professionals with acceptable looks and personality? Not a whole lot and not necessary they feel attracted to you as well.
Anonymous
05/19/2025 21:20
Subject: How do you meet a guy in your late thirties?
I met mine on eHarmony. I had to go on about 30 first dates. Don’t be too picky about first dates, but be polite and suggest coffee. My husband’s pictures were awful, so keep an open mind.
Anonymous
05/19/2025 21:16
Subject: How do you meet a guy in your late thirties?
Anonymous wrote:Professional and marriage minded.
I am clueless. Please help!
Following as beautiful, funny, professional and intelligent niece seems to think it's impossible to find traditional marriage minded guys if you aren't a majority race-religion person.
Anonymous
05/19/2025 21:08
Subject: How do you meet a guy in your late thirties?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Professional and marriage minded.
I am clueless. Please help!
Date men in their 40s to 50s who want those things.
if you date in your 30s or younger, the guys will see you as expendable and not commit as much.
An older man will cherish you much more than someone your age, as he knows he'd be a fool to get rid of you.
You mean someone like a divorced dad in his late 40s with kids who has to pay alimony, failed at marriage, co parent and has lots of baggage?
Hate it when people say things like the above, as if the only thing she stands to offer is her age and that's her only value, and therefore she has to date someone much older. Go for a quality man around your own age, you don't need to settle.
That guy in his 30s isn't going to be as ready for marriage and kids as you are.
The vast majority of men have kids in their 30s!!! And get married.
Anonymous
05/19/2025 20:47
Subject: How do you meet a guy in your late thirties?
Have your friends set you up
Anonymous
05/19/2025 20:38
Subject: How do you meet a guy in your late thirties?
Anonymous wrote:Professional and marriage minded.
I am clueless. Please help!
You are at your PRIME! Literally anywhere. Put out the vibes, flirt, dress to impress.
Anonymous
05/19/2025 20:33
Subject: How do you meet a guy in your late thirties?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Professional and marriage minded.
I am clueless. Please help!
Date men in their 40s to 50s who want those things.
if you date in your 30s or younger, the guys will see you as expendable and not commit as much.
An older man will cherish you much more than someone your age, as he knows he'd be a fool to get rid of you.
You mean someone like a divorced dad in his late 40s with kids who has to pay alimony, failed at marriage, co parent and has lots of baggage?
Hate it when people say things like the above, as if the only thing she stands to offer is her age and that's her only value, and therefore she has to date someone much older. Go for a quality man around your own age, you don't need to settle.
If she’s in her late 30s and can’t find a guy, yeah, she needs to settle.
Anonymous
05/19/2025 20:24
Subject: How do you meet a guy in your late thirties?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Professional and marriage minded.
I am clueless. Please help!
Date men in their 40s to 50s who want those things.
if you date in your 30s or younger, the guys will see you as expendable and not commit as much.
An older man will cherish you much more than someone your age, as he knows he'd be a fool to get rid of you.
You mean someone like a divorced dad in his late 40s with kids who has to pay alimony, failed at marriage, co parent and has lots of baggage?
Hate it when people say things like the above, as if the only thing she stands to offer is her age and that's her only value, and therefore she has to date someone much older. Go for a quality man around your own age, you don't need to settle.
The question is how to meet which you conveniently ignored.
Try church OP
Unless it's a Mormon church, forget it.
Anonymous
05/19/2025 20:23
Subject: How do you meet a guy in your late thirties?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Professional and marriage minded.
I am clueless. Please help!
Date men in their 40s to 50s who want those things.
if you date in your 30s or younger, the guys will see you as expendable and not commit as much.
An older man will cherish you much more than someone your age, as he knows he'd be a fool to get rid of you.
You mean someone like a divorced dad in his late 40s with kids who has to pay alimony, failed at marriage, co parent and has lots of baggage?
Hate it when people say things like the above, as if the only thing she stands to offer is her age and that's her only value, and therefore she has to date someone much older. Go for a quality man around your own age, you don't need to settle.
That guy in his 30s isn't going to be as ready for marriage and kids as you are.
Anonymous
05/19/2025 20:15
Subject: How do you meet a guy in your late thirties?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Professional and marriage minded.
I am clueless. Please help!
Date men in their 40s to 50s who want those things.
if you date in your 30s or younger, the guys will see you as expendable and not commit as much.
An older man will cherish you much more than someone your age, as he knows he'd be a fool to get rid of you.
You mean someone like a divorced dad in his late 40s with kids who has to pay alimony, failed at marriage, co parent and has lots of baggage?
Hate it when people say things like the above, as if the only thing she stands to offer is her age and that's her only value, and therefore she has to date someone much older. Go for a quality man around your own age, you don't need to settle.
The question is how to meet which you conveniently ignored.
Try church OP
Anonymous
05/19/2025 20:14
Subject: How do you meet a guy in your late thirties?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Professional and marriage minded.
I am clueless. Please help!
Date men in their 40s to 50s who want those things.
if you date in your 30s or younger, the guys will see you as expendable and not commit as much.
An older man will cherish you much more than someone your age, as he knows he'd be a fool to get rid of you.
You mean someone like a divorced dad in his late 40s with kids who has to pay alimony, failed at marriage, co parent and has lots of baggage?
Hate it when people say things like the above, as if the only thing she stands to offer is her age and that's her only value, and therefore she has to date someone much older. Go for a quality man around your own age, you don't need to settle.
Anonymous
05/19/2025 19:38
Subject: How do you meet a guy in your late thirties?
Anonymous wrote:Professional and marriage minded.
I am clueless. Please help!
Date men in their 40s to 50s who want those things.
if you date in your 30s or younger, the guys will see you as expendable and not commit as much.
An older man will cherish you much more than someone your age, as he knows he'd be a fool to get rid of you.
Anonymous
05/19/2025 10:40
Subject: How do you meet a guy in your late thirties?
Some are on the apps. Just have to wade through them. Networking events. HH at upscale bars. Through friends and alumni events.
Anonymous
05/19/2025 10:34
Subject: How do you meet a guy in your late thirties?
Professional and marriage minded.
I am clueless. Please help!
I am clueless. Please help!