Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Every year our team adds at least one kid that does all this. They will look amazing in the drills and the small sided games that most tryouts have and they will look good in practice. Then they play in a real game and lay an egg. Not saying all the extra training doesn’t help just there are other intangibles that usually don’t show up in a practice or tryout. Some kids have it others don’t. At the older ages a lot have coaches have already watched the players they want on film or played against
This is so true. My kid has a good friend who is amazing in tryout settings but not in games. I suspect it’s mostly performance anxiety.
My kids best assets are speed, passing accuracy and field knowledge. None of those things show up in the small side games and drills. Not a huge deal bc not looking to play on a top tier team.
Anonymous wrote:Every year our team adds at least one kid that does all this. They will look amazing in the drills and the small sided games that most tryouts have and they will look good in practice. Then they play in a real game and lay an egg. Not saying all the extra training doesn’t help just there are other intangibles that usually don’t show up in a practice or tryout. Some kids have it others don’t. At the older ages a lot have coaches have already watched the players they want on film or played against
Anonymous wrote:What places are better?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The top kids work their asses off year round. Fall and Spring 4 practices a week, 1-2 games. Winter 3 practices, plus Futsol and scrimmages. Summer, SuperY. Add in Capstone, HP Elite, at home practice and weight training and they are honing their skills all year long almost every day and playing against tougher competition. The coaches recognize the kids they see putting in the work. Usually work increases skill. If they don’t recognize your child as a top performer, they have not seen them put in the work.
Can we stop pretending like the kids who are not putting in this type of work should get the same looks as the ones that do. There is a large skill gap between the kids that work this hard year round and those that don’t. If you don’t get that, it is because your child hasn’t. Sorry. But hard work pays off and the coaches see who is putting in the work. Stop thinking your DC should get the same looks when they have not put in the work.
If your child has put in the work, they should stand out on whatever field they were assigned. IDs are not a random process, they reward the kids who are standouts and the ones that have been working harder for it.
100% agree except the HP Elite part. They are a scam. There way better places than that.
Anonymous wrote:The top kids work their asses off year round. Fall and Spring 4 practices a week, 1-2 games. Winter 3 practices, plus Futsol and scrimmages. Summer, SuperY. Add in Capstone, HP Elite, at home practice and weight training and they are honing their skills all year long almost every day and playing against tougher competition. The coaches recognize the kids they see putting in the work. Usually work increases skill. If they don’t recognize your child as a top performer, they have not seen them put in the work.
Can we stop pretending like the kids who are not putting in this type of work should get the same looks as the ones that do. There is a large skill gap between the kids that work this hard year round and those that don’t. If you don’t get that, it is because your child hasn’t. Sorry. But hard work pays off and the coaches see who is putting in the work. Stop thinking your DC should get the same looks when they have not put in the work.
If your child has put in the work, they should stand out on whatever field they were assigned. IDs are not a random process, they reward the kids who are standouts and the ones that have been working harder for it.