Leave it and say nothing. Sex toys are not a sign of deviance and you can’t get one pregnant.

Anonymous wrote:You throw it away. And wash your effing hands!

I washed my hands immediately idiot.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DS HS sr swore he could not find a pair of dress pants. I went in his duffle bag bc I know they were likely there. They were.

I also came across a jiggly gel thing that has a vagina and anus hole in it. It was just lying in the bottom of the bag not in a plastic bag or anything.

Am I supposed to put it back as if I didn’t notice it or leave it out and tell him he needs to clean it and keep it away from the rest of his clothes in a baggy? What would you do?

Why would it be "in a plastic bag"?

Put it back and pretend you didn't see it.

It’s dumped in a bag of supposedly clean clothing he wears that’s why.

Meh. Teen boys don't even see a difference between clean and dirty clothing. They aren't going to care about this.

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Anonymous wrote:Some of you are crazy. OP needs to leave this alone. My Lord.

This.

Maybe that will teach you to not go into other people's belongings OP. Didn't you teach your kids to never go into your purse or nightstand drawers?

Just stop it. He’s my dependent and lives in my home and has not graduate from hs yet. I asked him 4 times to look for these slacks. He claimed he did. Even went to the dry cleaners to see if they were there. I don’t want to have to buy more dress pants. I bought the duffle bag and the clothing in it. I’ve not looked in a bag or in his things for years and sure don’t do so in a snooping way. So just stop with your holier than others attitudes.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DS HS sr swore he could not find a pair of dress pants. I went in his duffle bag bc I know they were likely there. They were.

I also came across a jiggly gel thing that has a vagina and anus hole in it. It was just lying in the bottom of the bag not in a plastic bag or anything.

Am I supposed to put it back as if I didn’t notice it or leave it out and tell him he needs to clean it and keep it away from the rest of his clothes in a baggy? What would you do?

Why would it be "in a plastic bag"?

Put it back and pretend you didn't see it.

It’s dumped in a bag of supposedly clean clothing he wears that’s why.

Anonymous wrote:Hard no. Cut it up with scissors and out it back in the bag.

Yep, this! Slice it and dice it! If he asks tell him he’s lucky he wasn’t in it when you started chopping.

Anonymous wrote:Some of you are crazy. OP needs to leave this alone. My Lord.

This.

Maybe that will teach you to not go into other people's belongings OP. Didn't you teach your kids to never go into your purse or nightstand drawers?

Some of you are crazy. OP needs to leave this alone. My Lord.

Hard no. Cut it up with scissors and out it back in the bag.

Anonymous wrote:DS HS sr swore he could not find a pair of dress pants. I went in his duffle bag bc I know they were likely there. They were.

I also came across a jiggly gel thing that has a vagina and anus hole in it. It was just lying in the bottom of the bag not in a plastic bag or anything.

Am I supposed to put it back as if I didn’t notice it or leave it out and tell him he needs to clean it and keep it away from the rest of his clothes in a baggy? What would you do?

Why would it be "in a plastic bag"?

Put it back and pretend you didn't see it.

Trash it.

Eeeewwww teach him how to wash it.

You throw it away. And wash your effing hands!

You put it back where you found it and don’t mention it. Every human is entitled to a sex life. Make sure you are having regular conversations with him about sexual health and proper consent.

DS HS sr swore he could not find a pair of dress pants. I went in his duffle bag bc I know they were likely there. They were.

I also came across a jiggly gel thing that has a vagina and anus hole in it. It was just lying in the bottom of the bag not in a plastic bag or anything.

Am I supposed to put it back as if I didn’t notice it or leave it out and tell him he needs to clean it and keep it away from the rest of his clothes in a baggy? What would you do?