Anonymous wrote:No empathy to someone with a $5k mortgage. Go into savings, get second jobs, figure it out.
Anonymous wrote:The RIF’d one will get severance plus paid for annual leave so first use that money. Not sure how many college students you have but I think you need to push them to get summer jobs and save the money for next year’s spending money, books, supplies, gas for car, etc. Then use the 100k when needed as the unemployed one looks for a job. At this point I wouldn’t touch the thrift money. If anything, can you rent your basement out?
Anonymous wrote:it looks like one of us will be RIF, seems very likely. We have tons of fixed expenses between college tuition and mortgage, and we had to buy a new car because some idiot ran into us and totaled our very old Honda.
We have a pretty healthy TSP balance, but only about 100 K liquid, we just moved up from a condo to a single-family home during the pandemic which burned up all our extra cash.
So what is our option for a hardship withdrawal, obviously we could sell the house or our kid could drop out of college, so what qualifies as real hardship?
Anonymous wrote:This may be a place to start, OP.
https://www.tsp.gov/in-service-withdrawal-basics/financial-hardship/
Good luck!
Anonymous wrote:You have 100k liquid and one of you will still be working? Don’t touch it. Talk to the school (presuming you weren’t paying for college solely out of current income) to see whether any aid or new payment plan is available. RIFd person needs to look for work and maybe work something like retail to have something extra coming in. Cut expenses.
Anonymous wrote:You have 100k liquid and one of you will still be working? Don’t touch it. Talk to the school (presuming you weren’t paying for college solely out of current income) to see whether any aid or new payment plan is available. RIFd person needs to look for work and maybe work something like retail to have something extra coming in. Cut expenses.